The reason why you can't make a breakthrough in life is you're worried more about losing than winning. You're worried that you will make a mistake, you're worried that you will get tired, you're too scared of what people say, you don't want to try because you don't want your efforts to get wasted, you simply wanted to win but you're not doing anything about it. You're so scared to fail, right even before the challenge begin you're already thinking of ways to play safe and not to lose and that is why you can't win. If you're afraid to lose then you already lost. You will become weaker and weaker every time you're avoiding defeats and embarrassments. What the hell will you get by being afraid of something? nothing right? so make up your mind to still move even if you are scared, that far will goa way in just a matter of time. Fear is nothing but a feeling, it is an emotion and emotions come and go, emotions changes fast every time you move and take matters into your own hands.
HOW TO REMOVE WORRIES
Just be in the moment and accept what is happening and what is about to happen. It is what it is, you can never control everything, the only thing you can control is your next move. If you are worried just move, take actions, take the risk, feel the fear and never regret anything. Be fast, take actions and never go back. The truth is you don't have to worry about anything because everything was just temporary. They may hate you, laugh at you, embarrass you but it is all temporary, never make anything a big deal. Just play with your life but don't be a trash, make your life a game, it doesn't mean you will not taking anything seriously, of course take things seriously but not defeat.
LOSING IS NOTHING
You lose now and you will liv another day, you can try again tomorrow or later. You really have nothing to lose, losing is just another experience, you will feel like a real winner if you don't care about how people judge a winner. You judge yourself, if you're happy in what you just did even if you lost then you're still a winner. Losing is just a perspective, you may lose everything but if you still feel like a winner then you're a winner. Most people feel like a loser because they let other people define what winning is all about, define your own success, set personal goals and never let anybody know it. Just keep it to yourself, take risk and never care if you fail big time.
DON'T LOOK FOR APPROVALS
If you have an idea about winning or success then you need to believe it even if you haven't prove it yet, don't look for approvals, don't look for any validation, just try it and never give up. Looking for approvals means you don't really believe it.
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