Sometimes it's not about doing something right to become a winner, sometimes you just need to get rid of something. Something that is stopping you, slowing you down and distracting you. It can be any vices, it can be a bad habit, it can be an addiction, it can be a though that is stopping you from taking action. It can be a false belief, it can be a wrong programming that is immobilizing your system and stopping you from taking actions.
THE PATH TO BECOME UNSTOPPABLE
it is very simple... don't judge yourself and don' look for results. Every time you made a mistake... don't feel guilty about it. Every time you fail... don't make it a big deal and try again, try fast and never give up. Most people feel so down whenever they lose or made a mistake, they usually get embarrassed and depressed. Feel nothing about it, always think that this is a journey and that you don't have anything to lose, this is just a game and you're the main character. They're just watching, they're just participating in your own movie. Be decisive, the reason why you're so weak is because you're too overthinking, you're judging yourself too much and worrying about the future or what will people say. Just do what you need to do and believe that it is helping you to get on top. Stop being a chicken, always choose the harder path because it is the only thing that will give you an edge.
kill the urges
When you are urging for something but you scientifically know that it's not good for you then you need to stop thinking about it, think about some other things. People who always fail in life or let's make it short, let's call them failures with no future... they are very weak in fighting their urges. Their urge to watch porn and pleasure themselves, their urge to eat junk foods, their urge to procrastinate, their urge to oversleep and overthink, their urge to rest for no reason... they can't fight their urges and that's why they always choose the stupid decisions and weaker options. This is every basic but hard, you need to fight the urge to look for comfortable things and activities. If it is easy and pleasurable then it will make you weak, as simple as that. It's ok to reward yourself sometimes but never get addicted to it. Self discipline is the fuel for motivation, the more you fight your urges the stronger you get, you will have unlimited energy if you can fight temptations and instant gratification. It's normal to fall into temptation because you're just a human being but always make sure that you are doing your best to fight it, think right, think about the future waiting for you. For an action there is an equal reaction, you need to be smart. A simple and fast pleasure is not going to help you, you need to embrace boredom, embrace being plain and simple. People are very good in complicating their lives because they're always distracted and they are allowing themselves to get distracted. Stick with the basics, stop getting addicted with different things and vices that will make your life ugly in the future. To create a better life you need to tame yourself, be disciplined enough to choose what is best for you. The best options are always available, you just need to accept that you need to pick what is plain and hard, you need to go to the boring path because it has benefits in the future, it is the only option that will make your mind and body stronger and pocket thicker. Get rid of what is not serving you, this is a matter of using your willpower and strengthening it.
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