You can fail too like them, you can become successful too like them. But if you're going to fail why not fail because of your own dings? why not fail because you try for yourself and not let other people try it for you? just like losing in a basketball, it feels much better if you took the last shot and miss rather than letting other people miss the last shot for you and you lose. You are disrespecting yourself if you let other people dictate the outcome of your life because of being scared to try. If you work hard enough and you know you prepare for something then you should allow yourself to take chances. Never let anyone fail you, you need to fail yourself, do it your way or else you won't have any peace of mind. Yo will only be able to forgive yourself if you're the one who made the mistake and not let other people do it for YOU. You have a brain, you have arms and feet, you can move, you have strength then why the hell will you let other people do it for you? that's a big time cowardice, that's a weakass move, you need to take matters into your own hands and stop blaming other people why you are losing in life, stop looking for a scapegoat and blame yourself instead if you can't make it in life. You have the time, the resources, you have everything, you just need to look for it. If you think you don't have the skills or resources then you already made an excuse.
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Learn to adapt and improvise, prioritize taking actions over the results. Train yourself to become a doer instead of a talker. Forget about winning or losing and just focus on trying, success will come to you if you're already a different beast. The reason why you can't get anything is because you have a very low value, you are not working as hard as you can, you are not taking risks. Success and opportunity will not come to you if you're not looking for it. Confront your fears, confront your laziness, deal with your problems and tasks and never look back. The reason why you can't make a breakthrough is because you want comfort too much, you will only take actions when you are comfortable, you will only move when you are sure of making it. You only feel good when you already know that you're going to win and that is why you can't find an opportunity. Success and progress means discomfort, it means fear, it means war inside of your head. You still need to bet on yourself despite of feeling scared and worried. You still need to do it by yourself and not looking for a fake super hero to save you. Nobody will save your sorry ass. You need to take matters into your own hands and go all the way. Stop thinking that you can't make it, stop thinking that you don't deserve it, if you really prepared and work hard then you have the right to shine on the biggest stage. You can make your life amazing by taking risks and making yourself vulnerable to failure, embarrassment and hate. It's your life, you can do whatever you want with it, stop looking for validation, stop looking for likes and do it now. Never look for anyone's approval, stop being a follower and become the biggest risk taker that you can be. Nothing is big, you can lose everything, stop thinking that what in front of you is the only chance you have. You can become free, you can become very creative if you will never think that something is too big for you. Nothing is too big for you, never feel pressure about not getting it. Stop being scared if taking the blame, you need to man up and risk everything including your reputation just to give yourself a chance to win. Take the risk, no risk no reward.
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