If you believe in the power of delayed gratification then you don't have to worry anymore, you don't need to buy things just to impress people, you don't need to look for validation, you don't need to do what other people are doing just to avoid being left behind. If you really want to get ahead in life then master delaying gratification. Stop trying to look cute and focus on the process. Make sacrifices, stop satisfying yourself with pleasures and things, focus on the process and never care about the final result. It's what you've become through sacrifices and endurance, it is the real prize... your transformation. So look at you, what are you becoming everyday? are you evolving or downgrading? are you getting stronger or getting weaker? It all depends on you brother, stop looking for an excuse why your life is like that, it's like that because of your past actions and weaker decisions. You're better than that, once you transform yourself into a doer instead of a talker then everything will change. Being a doer is a game changer, don't let others do it for you, take matters into your own hands and use all of your strength and energy to achieve something that you really want.
NEVER SEARCH SOMEONE'S STORY
Another time waster that most people can't stop is researching the stories of other people. They were too interested with other people's lives that's why they can't fix their own lives, that's why they can't make a progress. Stop talking about other people's lives and focus on your own improvement. Let them be what they wanted to be. At the end of the day you don't need to study their stories, it is only a waste of time and energy, you are getting distracted by these celebrities that doesn't even bother if you are still breathing or not. You are slowly killing yourself every time you give away your time for free. Your time is your most valuable asset, not money or success. Your time will never come back once you wasted it, you can never replace it. Time is fast so take care of it very well and never squander any second trying to prove yourself or rubbing elbows with other people just to please them. You don't need to be liked, you don't need appreciation, you need self respect and you will only achieve it once you focus on your own life and trying to get better each day.
SLOWLY TRANSFORM YOURSELF TO BECOME A DOER
become a doer, that's all you need to do and your life will change. This is too simple, avoid looking for results and you will become a doer. People are having a hard time taking actions because they wanted results fast. They want to change their lives fast, they're too addicted to the outcome that's why they forgotten that life and success is a process, it's not about the results... it's about taking it one step at a time and changing yourself from being a lazy procrastinator to a doer. Don't look for results, it will be attracted automatically if you're getting better and working as hard as you can. The opportunities will look after you, you just need to make sacrifices now and endure getting zero. The truth is you are not getting zero at all, you are improving every time you work hard, you are putting yourself on a better position to succeed every time you push and force yourself to do the next move.
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