Don't call yourself a winner when you do nothing. If you're just a bench player sitting on a bench and cheering your teammates without playing for a few minutes then never call yourself a winner, you must be disgusted of yourself. You should be doing something now, you should be contributing something now. some people are pretending to be happy even if they're really not. Yeah they won a championship or something but deep inside they feel like something is missing because they didn't work for it. Some people are really good in faking their smiles even if deep inside they are in pain because they didn't play.
BREAK THE SYSTEM
Do everything you can to get out of the rut you are in. If your coach is benching you for more than a year then start making a plan. Look for some other teams that will use you. Ask for a trade, transfer to a different school. You are not born to rot on a bench. If you believe that you can contribute then you need to make a plan how to break the system. Still be a professional but show your coach that you are not happy. Don't greet him but respect him, don't laugh at his jokes but answer him when he is asking you. Pretend that you are listening to him but don't believe him. If he doesn't believe in you then what is the point in believing in him?
YOU'RE NOT A VICTIM
Give everything you've got when you were given a playing time. Think of it as your last chance, take many shots as you can and never pass the ball. Even if they yell at you, even if they blame you... take the last shot. This is your only chance to avoid being a bench player for life. You are suppose to do big things. The world is unfair but what are you going to do? don't just live like that. Stop feeling so weak and useless because you're so much better than that. You need to take matters into your own hands and force fate.
YOU CARE MORE ABOUT FAILURE THAN WINNING
That's why you can't take the risk, that's why you can't decide for yourself because you care too much about failing, you're afraid of it. You're afraid to lose your spot, you're so scared to lose everything you have. Don't be afraid to lose and you're already free. Don't be afraid to lose everything because you can get it back, you can get something better. Just persevere and try again, never quit and you already won.
SOMEDAY THEY WILL TREAT YOU RIGHT
If you work so hard now and get better, if you focus on your craft and never do anything else outside of your goal then they will respect you someday. They don't respect you because you're a trash. You don't have the skills and confidence, you don't believe in yourself.
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