One big mistake is when you let other people control your outcome, you let other people be your strength, you let them decide what is best for you, you let them be your commander. Don't expect from other people, expect more from yourself. Be the diver of the steering wheel, be the captain of the ship. The reason why your power depends on others is because you don't believe in yourself, the reason why you don't believe in yourself is because you don't want to fail. But if you make yourself vulnerable to failure and criticism then you will feel free and powerful, you will feel loose, you will become more creative and decisive. You will feel weak if you let people take over, especially with the smallest decisions that you could have done by yourself. You let other people be the director of your life, you let them get your power instead you controlling your own power. Take over of your life, take control, be the one who is in charge. Don't be afraid to take the blame, don't be afraid to fail. When you don't care about success anymore and you just care about doing it by yourself then you will feel so powerful. Don't strive for perfection, don't be afraid of getting judged by other people, it is normal, people will judge you no matter what.
GET YOUR HANDS DIRTY
Stop being a perfectionist, the reason why you can't move is because you don't want to be called stupid. It's ok if people criticize you, just do it your way and never give up, as simple as that. Always move and do it your way, build your own philosophy and live and die with it. Go and get what you want, get it by yourself, never let anybody get it for you because they won't. You are the controller of your life, the writer of your own book. Just do what you can, it doesn't matter if you're perfect or not. Take the power back and make the commands. You don't need your teachers to praise you to feel confident, you don't need your coach to pat you to feel great, you don't need people to like your posts to feel empowered. Your power should come from within and not from the outside. If you're ok losing, if you're ok being alone, if you're ok not getting any support then you will feel so powerful. Power comes from forcing fate and taking matters into your own hands. Get your hands dirty, embrace the mistakes and imperfections, accept your flaws. Don't be afraid to look stupid, weak or not great, It's all about trying and giving yourself a chance to win.
IT'S ABOUT LIVING IN THE NOW
Don't try to change yourself, don't hate yourself, just live in the present moment and try to give your best, as simple as that. You're hating yourself too much that's why you're losing confidence. You have to live in the present moment an squeeze what you can squeeze out of life using your willpower and judgement alone. Trust your decisions and don't be afraid to fail. Being afraid to fail means losing your power and not embracing life. You have to live in the now and face what is in front of you.
Don't ever let the outside be the source of your power, don't let it be someone or something. Never let help, luck, support, influence, connection, relatives, friends be the source of your power. Never let money, cars, fame, likes, things be the source of your power. Let it be you, know who you are, know that you can survive anything, know that you can find a way whenever there is a problem... it's your mindset that should be the source of your power.
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