Some people are faking their confidence, they are getting their confidence and bravery from other people, they are more confident when they have support or if the odds were in favor of them, they're only confident when they are sure that they are going to win, they feel good of themselves when they knew that they have the power. But that is fake confidence, that is for the weak, people who have this kind of mindset easily crumble when real pressure is there, they don't know what to do when they don't have anything to rely on. True confidence comes from hard work and preparation, it comes from discipline and living up to your own personal philosophy, it comes from know that whatever happens you will be alright because you knew what to do and you knew how are you gong to react. Fake confidence comes from external things, it comes from relying on something to make you feel secured. You are insecure if you need someone to make you confident, you are a fake strong if you need this or that to make you feel brave. True confidence comes from within, it's knowing that you are ok being alone... you are ok doing it your way and you're not afraid to lose or get embarrassed. You are ok being you and you believe in your strength becomes you prepared and you didn't get lazy in the past.
So if you want to get more and more confident.. prepare, train, study, meditate, visualize and of course work super hard, work on yourself, work on your goals... that is the best way to feel so good about yourself. It's knowing that you and your philosophy is enough to thrive or at least survive any kind of storm. It's knowing that nothing can make you crumble in times of pressure. Don't waste your time for nonsense things and activities that are only fun but useless. If you want to get ahead in life, if you really want your confidence to soar then prioritize the best things, prioritize honing yourself to get better each day. Enjoy the process and never get bored when things are not going your way, you have to believe that your hard work sand sacrifices will soon work and will give you something. The more you force yourself to do what is more beneficial the more confident you get, as simple as that. Confidence comes from training, preparing, doing the extra work to strengthen your mentality. It comes from philosophy, believing in something no matter what, it comes from the right habits and building the best culture for you and your journey.
STAY HUMBLE AND NEVER LET LOOK FOR RESPECT
Your confidence always go down because you're always looking for respect, approval, validation and permission from other people. You don't need to impress people, by doing that you're only lowering your self confidence. You will feel stuck and stiff when you're trying to impress people, you will never be able to express yourself honestly. If you want to become really confident then just be quiet and try to express yourself without any form of attachment from other people, just be yourself while working hard and doing your thing. The will respect you more if you're not trying so hard to impress them, just be yourself no matter what, don't try to look good and perfect all the time, stop trying to get their attention and focus on trying to impress yourself.
Choose action over inaction.
Every time you are lost, confused or unmotivated... choose action over overthinking. Analyzing things is the most dangerous way to solve a problem. You have to move now, be fast and never waste time. The truth is... you will only get stronger through moving, you will never get anything from being stagnant and complacent, you have to move now, do something and never stop, as simple as that. Be a doer and your life will change, 99 percent of people were procrastinators, they're so scared to try for whatever reason and that's why they can't make a progress. If you will just take actions all the time then you will have an amazing life. anyone can move, even the chickens can move, even the snails can move, even a person with no legs can move. You have to be ashamed of yourself if a person who is disabled is working harder than you, you have to stop feeling too comfortable and get ahead in life. If you have no confidence now it only means you are not testing yourself, you are not giving your all, you simple accepted that you are weak. But if you will test yourself and give yourself a chance to win by working super hard and taking risks then sky is the limit for you, your potential will not be measured.
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