The boy who is uglier than you is already ahead of you because he already asked the hot chick's number, he doesn't care if he gets rejected that's why he was able to get the number, plus he cracked a corny joke and made the hot chick laugh, his confident is growing stronger while you are getting jealous and wanted to punch the ugly boy's face. The dumber student who answers a wrong question is already ahead of you because his confidence is growing and your teacher is starting to know him. The weaker athlete is already ahead of you because he is not afraid to take the shot, he keeps on shooting even if he doesn't have the talent. The older and weaker man is already ahead of you because he starts fast and he is starting to create a stronger momentum. The moral lesson of this is you need to pull the trigger as fast as you can, it's not about winning... it's about trying and not being afraid to fail, the more you fail the closer you get to success, as simple as that.
THIS IS JUST A NUMBERS GAME
the more you try the bigger chances of winning. Be fast when you're about to try, ask or do something. be the first and don't be the second, speed is the name of the game, the faster you are the better it will be. The early bird catches the work, the fast mouse gets the cheese, the man with the thickest face gets the bigger contract, the man who is unafraid of failure gets everything he wants because he knew he can try again and get a better opportunity. Don't be afraid of any rejection or embarrassment, people will forget it, what matters is you focus on the concept of trying over and over again until something clicks. It's like setting a trap, you set the trap and you let something fall for it. You don't need to become great here, you will attract success by simply following the concept of not getting tired of trying. There's no harm in trying so why will you be afraid of it? try as much as you want because nobody will be able to stop you. You will become unstoppable if you're a doer and not an overthinker. You can try again today, never mind if you keep on losing, never lose your confidence, never feel down. And even if you feel so terrible and losing your angst... just try, keep on trying until you feel good about yourself again. It doesn't matter if you feel bad, just focus on the concept and that's to keep trying again and again. Be fast in trying, never be scare if the outcome is ugly, be happy if you try because it frees your soul, it will give you a very good feeling because you knew you didn't hold back. The good new is... you can try as many as you want, they will never count your failures or mistakes, they will never stop you, they can only watch while you abuse your privilege. Most people don't even want to try, it's their fault, this is an easy game, you will be surprised by how easy it was if you will just pull the trigger all the time. Be an action taker not a thinker, it's all you need to do and you will win in life. Make something work by trying over and over again.
THEY ALREADY JUDGED YOU BEFORE YOU EVEN WORRY
Why worry of what people are trying to say? they already judged you before you even try, they already believed their impression of you, you can never control how they feel. The best thing to do is be yourself and give yourself a chance to win. Don't be afraid of what people say, don't be afraid of what people might say, their words can never hurt you. Just be true to yourself and never let their words get into your head. Never let them affect you, it's just words, it's meaningless, it's nothing, it can never harm you. People will say something to you no matter what, you can never change they way they feel, all you can do is focus on how you feel, stay calm all the time and just do what you need to do.
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