Life will never become perfect, there is no such thing as a perfect life, wife, home, job, friend or path. Life is hard and you need to get use to it, it is hard but you can make it easier by thinking right. You have to accept that life is really like this and there is no other way to get happier but to change your mind. Change your perspective, change the way you see things. You will become happy if you're in the moment and nothing is controlling you. People are sad because they are being controlled. Social media is controlling them, they spent hours and hours on facebook and instagram or even nonsense tiktok. Their bosses are controlling them, their bad habits is controlling them and make them do useless actions that make their lives worse. If you want to become happier then choose to not be controlled. Never let the society control you, never let video games or vices control your life. You are going down every time you let something or someone control you because you are getting weaker and weaker everyday.
MAKE IT A HABIT TO KEEP ON PUSHING
Yu feel so sad, regretful, weak and depressed because you're not pushing yourself. If you will push yourself to do the right thing then you will feel much better and confident, you will feel stronger. Push yourself to exercise, work harder, clean more, do more, learn more, create more, do your responsibilities. Every time you work harder you get better, as simple as that. Push whenever you have a chance, push whenever you feel weak. Inch by inch do what you need to do, start now and never look back, never care if it takes a million hours to finish, never care about the future and just focus on what you're doing now, as simple as that. Make it a habit to push yourself and do what is necessary. Even if you don't like it... still do it, pull the trigger now and keep following through. Once you're done with the first step look for the next step right away. Enjoy the process and never give up when it is hard, difficulty and resistance should be your motivator, you should love being challenged, you should love the struggle and pain. Once you accept that it is hard and you decide to finish it.. you already arrived to a new level.
BE SLOW
Be slow but don't waste time, you're not happy because you can't do what you want or need to do. There is a lot of resistance. You feel lazy because you're always thinking about winning fast or finishing fast. You always want the end result right away that's why you can't move. But if you will slow it down and just take it one step at a time then you will be able to go further. You will only become fast if you start slow, once you feel your pace and establish your rhythm, life is not a race so why rush? it is a marathon. It's a battle of endurance, it's now how good you are... it's how tough you are. Many people become successful fast, they rose to the fame fast, they get everything fast but they also fall fast because they don't know how to handle the pressure of winning, they don't know how to maintain their money because they didn't experience how it feels like to be struggling. They take everyday for granted because they think they can always replace everything and that's why when they fall... they can't stand up. Happiness is in the present moment, be still, be calm and enjoy the present moment even if it is hard and uncomfortable. Stop looking too far, stop thinking about the future because it will come. What will happen will happen but still give your best and focus on what you can control only.
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