You've been listening to different types of dramas all over the world that's why your mind was easily manipulated and you can't focus on what you really want. Celebrities who are on drugs, athletes who were broke, politicians who were corrupt, a self made millionaire etc. These are dramas that are only eating a lot of your precious time that you could have use to make yourself a little bit better. The worse thing is you feel emotionally invested with their dramas, you know what? I have a bad news for you, it will never make you better, it will only make you worse. You have to focus on your own life and use your time for your own greatness only, that's how to live a better life. The problem with you is you're easily affected by outside influences, your pregnant celebrity idol is making you feel sad, your addict musician idol who is currently serving a lifetime prison is making you mourn, why in the world will you do that? you feel so connected with people who doesn't even know or like you at all.
STOP BEING A FAN
Stop dreaming to be like them, be with them or getting a sign from them. Be your own fan, stop praising people who will not even eat on the same table with you. Stop being an accessory and be the one who creates your own greatness, be the one who uses your own life, don't let them use you, they're just using your time and energy for marketing purposes, stop wasting your money for people who will not make you better. Are they inspiring you? for what? are they making you work hard? are they giving you money? they're not contributing to your growth so never praise and treat them like they're too special. They're just ordinary human beings like you. Create your own story, pursue an impossible dream and create your own dramas there, watch yourself grow and struggle, watch yourself lose and win. At the end of the day, this life is just a one time thing so why will you waste your life supporting other people who will not do the same for you? your idol never watched your game, your idol never watched your graduation, they are not there for you. If you want to live a different life then be a doer not a spectator. Stop watching other people's lives and start watching your own life, as simple as that. Stop being a stalker of celebrities or any well known person, stop wasting your life watching what they do or knowing their favorite food, it will never help your brain to get sharper, focus on being you focus on loving yourself and just give your very best every single day. Some people will even buy bags, jewelries etc. for their idols who were 10x or even 100x richer than them, what kind of mentality was that? stop pleasing people that will not even care for you if you are sick. Stop trying to care for somebody who will not even care for you back. You're better than that, learn to love yourself first instead of loving other people, prioritize yourself first, real mental health is giving love to yourself without being attached to anyone, it's you and you alone, it's you being happy who you are and what you are. Respect yourself and that is being done by being ok with what you've got and not looking for external things to make you happy. You can be happy by being alone, empower yourself, make yourself better, once you're better then the right people will come into your life. never care about other people for a year and you will see some dramatic changes in your life, you will get better and stronger, your metal game will rise to a new height. Anything outside of you should be eliminated, anything eats your time is trash. Focus on using your time and energy for making yourself better and stronger, that is what it's all about.
LOOK FOR CHALLENGES
Look for something that will challenge you and dedicate your life to it, don't stop, don't give up, keep trying and keep getting better... that's how to make your life more meaningful. For as long as you can move, move. Don't ever stop, don't ever make excuses. Excuses is for the weak, you're stronger than your excuses, you're greater than your situation. Any challenge can never break you down if you don't quit, it's hard but it will make you better. Look for challenges that will make you grow, a positive challenge, not a negative challenge like quarreling with your neighbor. A positive challenge like building your own business. Challenges will make you better and stronger, challenges will take you to a different level. Look for challenges and never give up until you defeat it. make a story out of your life, make it epic, make it dramatic, create your own drama. Never give up when things are hard, just do your thing, just do what you can do and take it one step at a time. Take baby steps, take it one day at a time, you don't need to make a very impactful progress, just be patient and always believe that one day is going to be your day. Make yourself powerful through failures, facing challenges and taking risks. These are the path to greatness, not winning, not support, not shortcuts. It's pain that will make you stronger and not comfort. Go for the kill, go for it no matter what. Even if it is hard, even if it is uncomfortable... fight for what you want and never give up. It's only just a matter of time before you make a breakthrough, only time will tell, you are assured of winning if you keep persevering. So work even if it is not working, take the first step and follow through. The harder you work the more confident you will be, i's a win win situation for you. So just look for what you can do and just give your best, you will grow as much as you can if you're committed to winning.
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