Don't focus on the date, focus on what you're trying to create. Many people are setting their New Year's Resolution thinking that they can change their lives right away. They were focused on the results that's why they can't get the results. They were focused on trying to get sexy and hot and not focusing on the process alone. They're focused on the change that's they they can't change. They're waiting for the new year thinking that this date can save them, thinking that it is the start of their new lives but after 2 or three months or even weeks... they go back to their old habits again. Never care if it is new year, start now, never care what the date is, if you really want something new in your life then you will do it, you will force the change even if it's 3:58 am July 34. You will never care what time it is, you will just take actions and start the process. You will only care about the next step and the next one and the next one, you will never seek for results for the work that you didn't put it.
DEFINE YOUR BAD HABITS AND GET RID OF IT RIGHT AWAY
The start of change is when you define your vices and bad habits and stop it right away. Stop it now even if you're addicted to it, it's possible, you just stop it and you never look back. My father in was a perfect example of leaving a bad habit right away. He is a chain smoker and he can finish 10 packs of cigars a day then one day he notice a lump on his neck, he was scared that it might be something and he was thinking that it's because of his cigarette addiction so he decided to stop puffing cigars right away and it's already been 20 years since he stop his addiction. If he did it then you too can do it. All you need is a willpower and decisiveness to change the direction of your life. If you really want it then you will embrace the stress that was attached with it. You will never care if it is hard, all you want is to make it happen regardless of the consequences. So if you want to change your life then you better stop something that is stopping you, making you weak or slowing you down. Once you define what is the poison in your life... you will heal immediately. All you need to do is accept that it is your responsibility to make it happen. Nobody will help you, you are the one to blame for the ugliness of your life. You need to push yourself, you need to force the change and never give up. You are creating your life everyday, you are not living it. It's your fault if you're on a downward spiral because you're wasting a lot of your time, you need to man up and do something about it.
You have to start where you are, never care what time it is, just do it. If you're really serious in transforming your life then you need to make big time sacrifices, you need to push yourself to the limits and never give up. The time is now, ask yourself if you want it or not, ask yourself if you're really into it. You have to decide, are you willing to go down the wire? are you really willing to give up everything just to experience a new life? or are you ready to live a life full of regrets by being mediocre, weak and do discipline? the choice is always yours, if you want to feel something different then be different. Change your energy and intensity. Increase your tenacity and perseverance, you can do it by challenging yourself, you can do it by choosing what you want to be.
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