Sometimes you feel bad for doing the right thing but it is the right thing, don't feel sorry if you hurt some people, it's the right thing so keep doing it. You will never be able to please everyone, sometimes you need to get rough in order to make things right. If you need to hit your son because he is being rude hit him, if you need to fire your employee because of tardiness and laziness fire him. Sometimes you need to become emotionless if you want to put things in order. There will be a lot of chaos if you're not disciplined, you will never be able to lead right or accomplish things if you're too soft. Don't feel bad for doing the right thing, it needs to be done so do it, stop being too emotional and attached to anyone, don't be afraid to hurt someone's feelings, it is what it is, you need to do the right thing so never mind if they feel bad because at the end of the day what you do is also for them, if they got hurt then it means they need to wake up and do better next time. At the end of the day you're just a human, you need to do what needs to be done to have a much better life. If you will never force yourself to do what you want then you will never be able to fix what is wrong.
BE ASSERTIVE
Let them feel that you mean business here. Let them know that you're not clowning around, let them know that you're willing to do whatever it takes to impose your will. Make a stand and never give up, never let anything intimidate you. Don't be afraid to feel the pain, embrace the uncertainty just to make them feel you. Make yourself big, be the authority and never let anyone stop you. Be unstoppable, the only one who can stop you is yourself. Say what you need to say, reject who you need to reject, do what you need to do now and never do it tomorrow because the moment you delay something... your momentum and assertiveness gets weaker. Be fast and bold if you want to become assertive, never let any weakness in your body takeover, do it when you're scared and uncomfortable, do it when you don't want to do it, as simple as that... that's how to become assertive. They will feel that you are serious and that you're not playing around, they will feel your energy and decisiveness. Be the boss, don't be a follower of wrong ways, be the one who does the right thing no matter what. There's no time to be soft here, there's not time to half heart something, if you can't make up your mind then nobody will respect you, even you will not respect yourself. Just do it and never care if somebody got hurt, it's their fault if they're too sensitive and soft.
Stop being so nice because they will abuse you and disrespect you, you have to show your teeth, you have to show your spirit and energy that you're not here to be played around. You are not clowning around, you are no punk and you mean business. If you will not be tough then they will treat you like a garbage, they will not take you seriously, they will do whatever they want without your consent, they will never give you some respect. So don't feel bad if you scolded someone, don't feel bad if you do it your way, don't feel bad if you hurt someone unintentionally, it is what it is, this is life, life is tough, if it is not tough then it is not life. There is no room for sensitive people here, life is what you make it, if you think you're a victim then you are, it's their fault if they think they are being treated unfairly, what matters is you do it your way because you have the power and your intention is good, it's for the benefit of more people. It's for a brighter future. At the end of the day you will never please everyone, you can only be yourself, if being yourself looks bad to others so be it, don't be afraid to look bad just to impose your will and put things in order.
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