Most people can't discipline themselves because they always love to choose fun because it's easier and more accessible, there's no sweat needed for it. They also didn't believe that they are growing every time they discipline themselves, they just feel that they are letting the suppose to be fun moments pass by and that's why they keep living a bum life.
You must know that you're growing every time you discipline yourself, you are getting better, you are getting closer and closer to success. You may not feel it for now, you may not see the results for now but eventually you will in the near future. Actually, you don't need to possess super skills or talents to succeed, you just need discipline and consistency, you just need to believe in yourself and everything you do, success will come to your life naturally.
Every time you stop yourself from eating junk food you get healthier, every time you exercise for just 10-20 minutes you get healthier, every time you stop watching TV you become more productive, every time you stay away from gossips and news you become a better thinker, every time you stop procrastinating your work ethic becomes stronger, every time you choose to study you're getting smarter. It's the small decisions that puts you on the better position to succeed, you don't need a life coach here that will suck all of your money, you don't need a fake guru here that will give you an approval, just stick with the basics and you will become a winner in life.
But the problem with you is you're always giving up every time you feel uncomfortable. You want to eat food or smoke a cigar every time you feel stressed in your work. You want to stop reading your lessons every time you got bored. You want to go to party every time you feel sad. You want to buy a lot of shits every time you see someone posting on social media about his brand new things. You get easily bored with your life and that's why you have a miserable life.
GREATNESS IS A PROCESS
It's not a result, it's not a product, it's not a specific number, it's not an ending, it's not a conclusion, it's not a positive judgement from people... it's a process. You try to become great everyday, you discipline yourself, you do whatever it takes to get to the next level, as simple as that. But the social media blinded you about what real greatness is, it poisoned your mind, it says that you need to have cars or millions to become great. It's telling you that you need to work for only 2 hours a day and get a lot of money, it's telling you that you should have this or have that in order to get respected, it's giving you the fake definitions of greatness. Greatness is a process, it's not about money or fame, it's not about looking cool, it's not about having the latest gadgets or getting millions of likes. Most people who are popular were depressed and not satisfied, it's because they don't know what it takes to become really great. All they know is they need to be liked in order to feel great. Look at those people who have everything in their life... they feel miserable, it's because they get it easily, they don't know what's next anymore, they don't have vision, they don't have a mission, they feel empty and weak.
Greatness is owning yourself, owning your emotions, owning your mind. It's moving forward all the time and trying to get better, it's trying to grow what you have without comparing yourself to other people. If you want to become great then don't look too far, look inside of you and make yourself a little bit better, keep doing it, never stop even if you're only seeing small results.
JUST DON'T STOP AND YOU'RE ALREADY GROWING
Chase a goal and don't ever stop until you get it. Don't feel sad for yourself every time you can't party, don't feel sorry for yourself if you're not cool, just chase your goal, chase it like a hungry lion, never stop, keep pushing. This kind of mentality will make you feel good of yourself, you will forget your problems, you will never think that there is something missing in your life because you're too busy trying to become a little bit better. Appreciate your small progress and feel proud of yourself, don't brag, don't try to be arrogant, just feel proud without talking, feel confident because you have a purpose and you're not wasting your time and life. Keep going further no matter what, don't quit when it's hard, just keep going and believe that one day you will get what you want.
So if you wanted to grow, if you wanted to become better and live a new life... discipline yourself. Stop watching porn, stop watching TV, stop buying stupid shits, stop gossiping, stop watching news, stop watching videos that will not even help you and watch yourself. Watch yourself work hard, watch yourself grow a little bit, watch yourself pushing and grinding just to get to the next level. This kind of approach in life is more fun and 100 times more meaningful than wasting your time and caring about what's going on with the world. You will never grow if all you care about is your celebrity idol, you will never become better if you're more concerned with the result of a basketball game than trying to make yourself sharper and smarter.
You will only win in life if you're giving more time for yourself than giving time to other people. Stop being emotional with the news, problems of the country, failure of your idol and any other subjects that will not even help you to grow. Be mindful of what you're doing all the time, stop yourself right away every time you catch yourself doing some stupid shits. You have to guard yourself and make sure all of your actions are related to your goal. Use your energy and time for your goals only and never mind other people's problems or business. Focus on your life, focus on winning and never go back being a procrastinator again.
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