The answer is NOBODY, nobody cares so stop making dramas. They don't care if you're suffering, they don't care if you're struggling, they don't care if you've been treated unfairly so just keep moving forward and do what will give you great results. Acting like a victim will never help you, it will make you worse. Never ask for sympathy or support, stop looking for any helping hand, never look for someone who will listen to your dramas because you're only becoming a toxic person by doing that. You're looking like a weak useless clown that doesn't have any make up on your face, you're looking like a trash. You better quit making dramas because nobody cares how much pain did you take. Everyone has his own problems, you're not the only one who's suffering so quit making stories about you being treated unfairly. It is what it is, there's nothing you can do about it anymore, you have to stand up and dust yourself off and do something to make your situation better. Forget your past, forget your failures, forget the people that hurt you and keep moving forward all the time.
FOCUS ON WHAT YOU CAN DO NOW
What can you do now to make your situation a little bit better? do it. What can you do now to ease the pain and give you some confidence? do it. What's the easiest thing that you can do that has a potential to give you something in the future? do it. Your life depends on what you do now, it's not about what you have, it's not about what you know or possess, it's what are you willing to do now. The power resides on the present moment, if you can just be in the moment and just do whatever you can do then you will become more powerful, you will be in control, you will make a progress faster and will not be stuck on the same place like before. The present is a gift, you can do a lot of things with it, you can become very creative, productive and efficient. You can enjoy the moment and make the best out of it, you can make some small progress so stop squandering your time and just go all in, just focus on the process and never think like a loser again. The present moment is all you've got, if you can just use it the right way then your life will become better.
You will become more powerful if you will focus on improving a little bit, you will never feel stuck anymore if you will forget the outcome and just focus on the process, get addicted with the baby steps that you can do and never feel bad if you're only getting small progress. Just keep moving forward and that's it, there's nothing else to worry about... just move forward and you will be fine.
ENDURE ALL YOUR PAIN
I know there are some difficulties, pain, problems that you are facing right now but you have to deal with all of those things. You have to stop acting like something is always hurting and that you need a special treatment from everyone, you're not entitled of a special treatment even if you're hurting so bad. That pain will make you stronger if you think of it as a helpful element, that pain will make you tougher, it is training you to overcome anything in the future. Just embrace it because all it does is make you grow not to make your life miserable. Just keep pushing when it's hard, don't ever think that what you feel now is permanent, it shall pass too soon, everything will pass so don't ever feel like a victim and think that the world is unfair to you. The world is unfair to everyone, everybody gets an unfair treatment but the happiest and most successful people doesn't care about it, they just move forward despite of feeling bad.
YOU'RE NOT SPECIAL
If you can just kill your ego and think that you're not special and that you're only human that's not different from everyone else then you will feel much better, the heaviness you feel inside of you will go away. Stop feeling entitled, stop feeling like a chosen one. You're just a human being, you're not invincible, you have to stay humble and lowkey. If you can just think simple and not complicate everything, if you can just focus on what you want then you will never suffer like that. Nobody cares about your journey, nobody cares if you're suffering or not, nobody cares at all so stop whining like a bitch and make your life better. You're not special, you're not even rich, you're not even popular. And even if you're popular and rich, stop acting like a brat because you're not special too because not all the time people will respect you, one day you will be forgotten, one day you will become weak so stay humble and just live the right life.
LIFE WILL BECOME EASIER IF...
If you will just work, if you will never care about what people say, if you will just give your best, if you will just believe in yourself and never make dramas again. Stop expecting that the world will help you and will give you a free pass, stop expecting that you will be given a special treatment, just keep moving forward and make small improvements everyday. Focus on your goal and take it seriously, make yourself a winner by doing it your way and not looking for any sympathy or appreciation. You have to learn how to become independent from anything so that you will be in full control of your life. Because looking for help, appreciation, attention, assistance will only make you weak, it will stop you from taking actions. Life will become easier if you will take matters into your own hands and never complain if life is kicking you in your face. You have to learn how to fight, you have to learn how to defend yourself and fight for your dreams. Just keep moving forward and do something positive despite of the ugly things that are happening in your life.
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