When you pass the initial interview and then on the final interview you got rejected by the company that you apply... move on, feel nothing, don't make dramas, don't even hate the company. Pack your bag, fix your beard, apply new perfume and go hunt the next company that may take you. There's nothing wrong with being rejected, you have to move on fast, it's just another failure that will make you stronger, you should feel nothing about it. You need to forget it fast and never let it affect your mentality.
Just like in hunting a girlfriend, if one girl rejects you then go find another one. Surprise the girl that rejects you that you were able to find a new one. She should think like "oh My God, good thing I didn't love this boy because he's a player" Make her feel that she's nothing and that you can replace her with a new one instantly. Never let your feelings get in your way, you have to become fast and recover fast every time you get hurt. It's a skill you need to develop, you should love yourself and avoid depression. Because every time you get sad, every time you want to think about the rejection then you're not helping yourself, you are only hurting yourself even more and it's not giving you any favor. You should learn to love yourself, move on so fast and take actions immediately, never wait, just go for the next target.
EVEN THE STRONGEST ONES GETS REJECTED.
Even Michael Jordan was rejected during the tryouts in high school. Even Leonardo Dicaprio was rejected by a girl. Even Elon musk failed multiple times. Don't be afraid to fail because it's nothing, you have to play this game of life like a brave warrior that has nothing to lose. Always feel like you're just playing and you're only giving a chance to win. You don't mind getting rejected, you don't mind losing because you don't feel anything about it. You're not special, most people doesn't even know you, only a few people knows you so who are you to be scared to fail? never care about your identity, never care if you're not doing well and just give your very best to win. The difference between a successful man and a failure is not the talent, it's the ability to rise every time he fail.
If you want to succeed then don't be afraid to ask. Ask a hot girl to go out on a date with you, ask your boss a raise, ask people to buy your products, ask the richest man in your town for a donation. Don't be afraid to ask and never feel bad if you get a NO answer. Feel happy when you're asking because most people couldn't even open their mouths and negotiate, you have to train yourself to just go for it and never be afraid to get rejected. Just go home when you get NO and then look for another target. Always believe that you will get a Yes answer, always believe that the next one could be it.
YOU WILL BE SURPRISED WITH THE SUCCESS YOU'VE BEEN GETTING
Just make trying as your number one hobby and you will be surprised with the number of success you've been getting. It's because the more you try the more chances of winning. Just give everything you've got and never stop trying, you will win even if the goal was so difficult, fortune favors the man who never quit. You don't need to become super spectacular to get what you want, you just need to keep trying until you finally win. Make trying as your culture, it should be your priority not winning. Because if you will always think about winning then you will become scared of taking actions, if you're focused on making it perfect then you will become scared to make mistakes and being scared of making mistakes is the number one reason why most people procrastinate.
Just try, be a tryer, don't be afraid to get rejected, don't be afraid to lose... just try and give yourself a chance to win. It's a never ending process, ask a million times if you need to, always believe that you will get lucky through hard work and perseverance. You will neve get rejected forever, one day you will win too.
KEEP HUNTING EVEN IF IT'S RAINING
What you want will come when you least expect it so keep hunting even if it's raining. If you're looking for a new place to live keep looking even if it's raining. If you're looking for a job... keep hunting even if it's raining. If you're looking for a new client... keep hunting even if it's raining. It means that you should not care if it's the end of the world, you should never make excuses, push even if it's hard to push, take actions every day because that's the only way to win. Because you might miss an opportunity if you will always say pass today, you will miss a lot if you will make excuses and somebody else will get the opportunity that is being presented to you. Because you're building a strong character here, you don't make excuses, you don't let any opportunity escape, you just get it even if there are lot of obstacles along the way.
Be a non stop guy, live your life to the fullest by taking chances, always show up, always ask, always try to get what you want and never feel anything after getting rejected. You should man up and try again, wipe your tears and go back trying again. Make it your mentality... you look for opportunities and you try even if the chances of winning is very slim, you give yourself a chance to get lucky by working hard and having a thick skin to ask.
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