THERE'S NO SHAME IN TRYING SO HARD

If you're working so hard and yet failing... still be proud of yourself, there's no shame in working hard. There's no shame in giving your all and still coming up short, there's no shame in trying to kill yourself just to win, you must be proud because only legends do that, only the great ones do that so keep pushing and keep trying again, don't ever get tired of trying for one more time because one day success will fall into your hands, it will be yours, nothing can stop you, you're always in control. It's up to you if you will stop and give up or continue and pursue. It's all in the mind, feeling like a loser is all in the mind, if you feel like a winner because of simply trying then you're a winner already. It's the process that will bring success, you will never win if you will not try again, as simple as that.

HARD WORK SHOULD BE YOUR MENTALITY

Not soft work, not easy work, not short cuts, not looking for an easy way out... it should be hard work and nothing else, you should grind like hell and make yourself extraordinary by doing what most people can't do. You have to keep going every single second, never rest when you're tired, rest when you're done. You have plenty of time to rest when you're already dead so while you're still alive... keep working and do whatever it takes to succeed. Never make excuses, never make dramas, stop being soft and just go back to work. Hard work will give you everything, there's no substitute for it, you will be alright if you will just work hard. Even if you're down, even if you're badly broke, even if you're lost and nobody is helping you... you can find a way how to make your life better if you will work hard. Push as hard as you can and never look back, don't feel sorry for yourself if you give your all yet didn't get anything, it's alright, try hard again tomorrow, repeat the same process over and over again. Be patient because the results will come in just a matter of time, be willing to wait, be willing to give your all every single damn day. 

Because it's the best mentality that you could ever have, it's better than the soft mentality, it's better than having self pity, it's better than complaining and making excuses, it's much much better than pointing fingers to somebody and blaming him why you're not winning. Instead of wasting your energy for negativity and nonsense things... just work hard. Chase something, do whatever it takes to get it and never give up. All you need to do is keep pushing, what's difficult about that? Just train your body to start fast, train your mind to kill your doubts and hesitations. Just don't think and move, repeat this process over and over again and see where it takes you. 

Change your mind now and take hard work seriously. Master it, make it as your number one weapon, make it as your go to method whenever you're struggling. When life is hard... go harder. 

YOU CAN TRY AGAIN

You can apply hard work to anything that you're chasing. If you got rejected by a girl then go for the next one, always look for the next victim, don't get discouraged if millions of girls already rejected you. Even if you're so butt ugly someone will still accept your romance, someone will still accept you who you are. Don't forget that you can try again, you can fail as many as you can and it's only helping you to become better. If you failed in an interview try again tomorrow or even later, post a fake resume in jobs.com and wait for an invitation, post a million times, you can try again, there's no harm in trying, this is just a game. Always think that you're just setting up traps and somebody will fall into it and you will laugh like a devil bwahahaha! hard work pays off all the time, 100 percent most of the time you will get what you want, it will never fail you. So don't be afraid of anything, don't be afraid if you're struggling because you can try over and over again for as long as you're still alive. Don't be shy, ignore the comments of others that you're trying so hard, yeah you are trying so hard and so what? they can't do anything about it, all they can do is watch you rise. 

Be proud if you're working hard because only few people can do that, only few people can really give their all. You have to be proud of yourself because you're doing everything to make your life much much better. Be happy of yourself even if you're getting less because you're on the right path, longer your patience and learn to wait because it's only just a matter of time before you win.

TOTALLY LEAVE EVERYTHING THAT DOESN'T HELP YOU

If something is not helping you.. leave it permanently, drop it like a useless thing that will never make you remember it. You have to leave it because it will eat a lot of your time and energy. Remember you are chasing greatness right? what the hell are you thinking of? focus on what you want and get it no matter what, never think that it's hard, never think that it's too impossible, start taking actions now and make something happen. Leave a bad habit, leave a toxic friend, leave a useless entertainment, you have to be mindful of what you're doing and always ask yourself if you're doing the right thing. Guard yourself, never let your guard down, be strict and discipline on yourself because that's the only way to change your life. You can do it, you can discipline yourself, if you really want it then you will make big time sacrifices, you will never care if your life gets boring, you will just do it, you will just drop everything that doesn't serve you at all.