The number one freedom granter is not caring for the results or appreciation. You will feel free if you're not looking on what you're getting. Most people can't move forward once they failed to win, they're so addicted to results to the point where they just keep thinking about it and they already forgot to take actions. They already forgot that it's the process that will bring success and not being need of results or appreciation from other people. You will feel free if you will detach from anybody's opinion of you, you will feel more powerful if you will just do what you need to do regardless of where you are and what time it is. Develop a mindset of just doing what is needed even if you feel so uncomfortable.
Because you can never change people's opinion of you, if they hate you from the beginning there's nothing you can do about it, all you can do is live your life and be yourself, stop getting too attached to them, stop thinking that you need to be liked, stop trying to be nice all the time and just be yourself because that's the best thing you can do for yourself... be yourself even if they like it or not.
DOING SOMETHING FOR THEM
This is the most dangerous mindset that you can ever have... living your life for them, doing something for them. You're wishing to be liked, you're wishing to get appreciation from other people, and if you can't get it.. BOOM, you're so depressed and unmotivated. You will only feel free if you will do something for yourself, if you will believe in yourself and in everything that you do.
The comments of those Mofos will never help you, you have to feel free all the time and never let what people think stop you. Say what you need to say just don't be disrespectful, do what you need to do just don't look for a fight, don't be afraid that you might offend somebody, it's their fault if they're too soft and emotional, being sensitive nowadays will never help. You have to be bold and assertive, don't push yourself back just because someone might get hurt.
Stop trying to please people because it will make you weak, it will make you conservative and slow, it will make you a slave. Do something for yourself, do it because it's positive for your life and you're loving every second of it, don't do something to impress people or to get their approval, it's the weakest thing that you could ever done, do it because it makes you genuinely happy. Forget about what people say, forget what they think and just live life according to your rules. Never try to make somebody like you, if they like you they like you so be it.
Because at the end of the day you will still be judged no matter what you do, why not try to be yourself? why not just mind your own business and focus on your own growth? this will make your life much easier.
ATTACHMENT IS WEAKNESS
Caring too much about the future, caring too much about the results, caring too much about perfection... these things will make you weak. You have to detach from anything if you want to feel free, no matter what happen just give your best and let the results happen by itself. Always worrying and looking fir guarantees will never give you a peace of mind, you have to trust the process, you have to trust life and never let anything disturb your mind because it will only lead to failure. Detach from anything so you can work harder, be more creative and feel lighter. The more you attach yourself from something the worse you will feel, you will feel sick and slower. You have to detach so that nothing will make you feel heavy. What will happen will happen, the only thing you can control is your thoughts and actions, you're in power if you will focus on what you can control.
You will feel powerless and hopeless every time you focus on what you can't control. You can never control the outcome, you can never force how much money you make, you can never control the hate of other people, you can never force them to do things, it will only make you depressed. It's much better to focus on what you can control and that is your efforts and dedication. Just enjoy the journey, trust the process and carry on.
FAILING IS PART OF LIFE
You are not living your life if you're not failing, you're missing a lot every time you resist pain and struggle, stop looking for comfort all the time, stop looking for security. The key to having a great life is your mindset. Once you have the right mindset and you use the right philosophy of life... nothing can break you, nothing can crush you, you're always right, you will never be wrong. Life is simply about fighting, you fight your fears, you fight your laziness, you fight the negative thoughts inside your head and you just knew you're going to be alright. Just give your best, keep trying for one more time and never get discourage at all, never feel like a victim, it's ok if the progress is slow, for as long as you're moving forward... you will be fine. So stop wasting your time and energy for stuffs that doesn't matter at all, stop attaching yourself to something that is only making you weak, you can feel and become strong anytime you want to, just make sure your mind is on the right place.
Just keep failing and have fun. There's no harm in trying, you can try as much as you want, success will fall into your hands in just a matter of time so be patient. You're in complete control here, you have the power to make your life better, it's on you.
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