It's funny because there are lot of gurus wannabe spreading on the internet what you should do with your life. They're telling you what steps to take in order to become successful in relationships, career etc. The truth is... they're just making money from you, the more you attend their seminars, the more you get hooked to them the more you waste money but still your life is the same. You don't need somebody to teach you how to become successful or how to live your life. There's only one thing you need... keep trying. That's it, don't be afraid to fail, you don't need anything, you just need to try. If you want something all you need to do is keep trying over and over again, you don't need special methods here, you will discover the knowledge you need yourself, you don't need someone to teach you special techniques, all you've got to do is keep trying. It doesn't matter if you have the skills or not, it doesn't matter if you have the advantage or not... just keep on trying, make it your journey, never give up, hustle every single day and never feel anything if you get rejected or embarrassed. Just treat it as a game, embrace the failure, embrace the pain, embrace everything that is about to come to your life. When you're down simple stand up right away and never be like others who keeps on making dramas and excuses, never blame anyone for your shortcomings, blame yourself and go back try again.
All you need to do is ask, all you need to do is work harder and that's it. There's nothing else to worry about, there's nothing else to be scared of. And even if you're scared... just keep moving forward and never hold yourself back. That fear will soon go away, that fear will evaporate. Expose yourself to failure and pain, expose yourself to taking chances even if you're not qualified. Believe in yourself and even if you can't believe in yourself... just don't be afraid to fail, don't be afraid to take the blame and keep moving forward. Always think that you are ok, always think that you don't need anything to become happy but of course chase what you want just for the sake of testing yourself and enjoying life. Treat it as a game, never take anything seriously. If you got rejected by a girl then move on and look for a new victim, if you got fired on your job then move on and go look for another job, always be on a state of abundance knowing that there is something next waiting for you. Opportunities are everywhere, just look, stay confident and take the necessary steps to get them.
Keep on trying, keep on growing. Once you earn something keep it and never spend it, always try to become bigger than yesterday. Stay humble, stay persevering and just keep moving forward. You don't need anybody to tell you what to do, if you're ready to fail and ready to endure the pain of it then you will become invincible. It's just a numbers game, ask 1000 girls and you will get 10 or more. Apply for 1000 jobs and you will get ten or more. It's the one who can keep on trying and not wasting time on what people say that will win. Just keep moving forward and that's it. No matter how big your problem is... just don't give up, expose yourself to pain and disappointment, suck that feeling, embrace it and soon you will find out that it's nothing. Stop making dramas, stop complaining, stop blaming people and just live your life and allow yourself to win by always asking, trying and working hard. It's too simple right? if nobody likes you so be it just keep moving forward. If you're always failing so be it, just keep moving forward. But don't ever quit, don't have self pity, don't think like a loser. Just think that you're just playing games and you're jus trying to catch some fish, if someone bites the bait then it's time to have some fun.
DETACH FROM FAKE HAPPINESS
Always think that you're already happy no matter what you have, and even if you really don't have anything... always think that you're already happy. Happiness is when you can appreciate your life alone without anything. You don't need to depend your happiness from any external things, you don't need to impress people, you don't need to become popular, you just need to express yourself and just try. Cars, houses, women, success... these are not real happiness because once you get all of it you will look for more. The real happiness is the journey, it's the process, it's watching yourself growing and overcoming problems, it's watching yourself embracing the most difficult things and weathering the storm. It's not about winning, it's about not giving up. You don't need respect from people, you don't need a lot of things, you just need to love yourself, be happy with what you've got and keep moving forward all the time.
OUTGROW EVERY PROBLEM
Be greater than your situation, if it's hard then so be it, it's hard right? accept that it's hard and never complain. Never make excuses and just focus on making solutions. You can solve anything, you can solve any puzzle no matter how difficult it is. Outgrow every problem and never give up, keep pushing forward all the time. Just give your very best, do whatever it takes to win in life. Take care of your body, take care of your mind and just learn how to control your emotions. Accept that life is really like that. it's really difficult but it's teaching you something.
ALWAYS THINK THAT YOU CAN DO IT
Always think that you can win even if it's too obvious that you're going to lose. Always think that you have a chance, it doesn't matter if you will win or not, just don't feel like a loser, this is training your mind to become tougher, this is training yourself to push further even if the going gets tougher. When it's hard you have to go harder, never quit until it's over. And even if it's too evident that it's over... keep trying because miracles happen to people who doesn't give up.
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