Sep 16, 2020

WHY IS HARD WORK GETTING HARDER AND HARDER


Hard work is not suppose to be hard, it's suppose to be easy. It becomes hard because there are some factors that makes it hard. Your mind, your attitude, your perception and your judgement towards it. Hard work can be easier if you will change what's happening inside of your mind, change the pictures, change the words, change how you feel about any kind of work. 

HARD WORK IS GETTING HARDER AND HARDER BECAUSE...

You always think about time, you think you need to finish fast, you think that rushing will make your work easier. You always think about impressing others, impressing your boss, impressing the people who criticize you, impressing the people around you and that's why every work has a pressure. You're always thinking about the future, thinking about how to get something from your hard work. You're always thinking about going home and relaxing on your sofa bed. You're always thinking about some other things while working, you're not focused, your body wants to go somewhere else instead of facing the task and being in the moment. You don't want to love your work, you want some other work that is easier. You always feel that you're entitled of something better, you always feel that you deserve more instead of enjoying what is in front of you and finding a way how to get what you want slowly. You want fast success, you want to become bigger right away, you always think that you should have been successful by now if the universe gives you some breaks and better opportunities. Hard work becomes harder because you blame people why you are not succeeding, you blame your parents for being unsupportive, you blame the company for giving you a low salary, you blame everything, you're always looking for a scapegoat. Hard work becomes harder and harder because you don't want to develop the passion in any kind of work, you just want to finish it and get some money from it, you're just working to survive and not to thrive, you don't want to see the better opportunities that maybe connected from your work. You're not looking for some ways how to grow from it. You are procrastinating a lot, you are wasting a lot of your time that's why you always feel so heavy and lazy. Because the truth of the matter is you're only making your life more difficult every time you procrastinate. You have to do what is needed now without hesitations and overthinking. 

HOW TO MAKE HARD WORK EASIER?

Stop feeling entitled of getting more by doing less. Just do your work and never complain, if you hate it and you can't stand it anymore then leave, never try to look like a victim, never blame your boss or anything that makes you feel bad, just leave, you have a choice, nobody is forcing you to work. Just have fun with any action that you are doing, do you best, push if you'e having fun pushing but if you're feeling overwhelmed pushing then just set your own pace, a steady and consistent pace without procrastinating. Don't ever feel that the company is treating you like a slave, don't ever think that you're a victim, enjoy every work because it will create your character. And so what if your work is hard? it will become easier as the time goes by because you are getting familiar with it. Every hard work will become easy if you will just repeat it a lot of times, it's only hard in the beginning. If you will allow yourself to move and just do it without any judgement then any work will become easy work. Just like what Floyd Mayweather said: "All work is easy work". If it looks easy on your mind, it will look easy on reality. Any work will become much much easier if you judge it as something easy, don't feel bad about it, don't look at the clock, don't look at how many steps you need to take to finish it... just be in the moment and take it one step at a time. 

BE FAST IN STARTING

Don't think, don't hesitate and just start. Once you start never think abut finishing so fast, every time you feel so heavy and uncomfortable... keep pushing, don't worry because it will become comfortable later, all you need to do is look for the momentum, you will find it if you keep moving forward. Once you have that momentum... everything else will feel so easy. It's all about showing up, it's all about starting and doing something. Always try to feel appreciative with every action that you did, feel blessed that you are moving and never curse your work no matter how ugly your work is, feel proud about your work, feel blessed with it. Because every time you damn your work it's only making the process harder, your mind and body will believe that it's hard. Always think that it's easy, just move your body as fast as you can and feel everything that is going on. Be aware of what is happening, feel the love, feel the process happening, feel good that you are doing something. Because life is all about moving and doing something, it's not about lying on your sofa bed forever, life is about evolving and creating something no matter how simple it is. 

You can start anytime you want, don't stop yourself, don't deprive yourself from taking actions, you can do anything at any given moment, all you have to do is move and that's it. You have the power to move, never think that you will get tired every time you work hard, always think that you are getting stronger and better every time you work. That's what the mindset should be, always think that you are benefiting something from it. 

An easy work can also feel hard work if you don't like it, it's just a matter of tricking your mind to believe that you love what you're doing.

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