Sep 15, 2020

THERE'S NO SHAME IN WAITING


Success is not yet on my side, I'm not big yet, I'm not great yet, it's not my time yet... it's ok because I can wait. If it takes forever so be it but I will never stop working, I will never stop grinding, this train will keep moving forward and it will never stop until I get what I want, as simple as that. There's no shame in waiting, there's nothing to be ashamed of if you've been waiting for a long time. That is what greatness is all about, it's about who's the more patient individual, it's about who's willing to wait and work for a very long time. Don't be afraid to wait, don't be afraid to get old. Don't be afraid to get tired, don't be afraid to fail over and over again, that is what success is all about... you need to test yourself, you need to test your endurance and capacity. You will know who you are if you're chasing success. It's going to get tough and boring, the level of your patience will be challenged and if you're that type of person who always quit then you will never taste success for the rest of your life, it will never fall into your hands, you will taste the same garbage every week, every month or even everyday. Are you not sick and tired of your life? if your answer is yes then it's time to rebuild, it's time to think different and act different, it's time to take massive actions. Upgrade your mind, improve your work ethic. Be faster, be bolder, work harder and let's see if success doesn't fall into your lap. 

HOW TO MAKE THE WAITING TIME SHORTER?

It's very simple... focus. If you are focused on what you want then you will be able to do more, success will be attracted faster. Focus is a very powerful thing, it will make you faster, it will make you better, it will make you a genius, you are aligning with your dreams if you're focused. Most people wait for so long because they're doing a lot of crap, they're attention is going everywhere, they have a crowded mind, they have a lot of worthless habits, they're trap in a cycle that is very hard to escape from. If you don't want to wait for so long then you need to readjust your focus, make it sharper, know what you want, define the actions that you're going to take and focus on them. Always be aware if you're not following the game plan anymore. So be aware of what you're doing and thinking. Never do something that is outside of your goal, never think about thoughts that are only distracting you from getting what you really want. Time is fast, you will have more time to do things if you are focused and committed. Look at yourself... have you ever feel regretful about the time you wasted? did you ever feel bad because you think you should have been successful by now but you're not because you've wasted a lot of time in the past? Focus is the key and nothing else, fix your mind to what you want, get addicted with it, love it, make it your default thought. It's all about disciplining yourself to become single minded and razor sharp focus on what you want to get. Focus on what you really want and time will fly. 

HOW TO AVOID WAITING?

Waiting is just a feeling, it's not even real. It's an emotion, it's how you feel if you are impatient and rushing to get what you want. If you know that it will arrive then you don't have to wait anymore, if you want to avoid waiting then you need to believe that it's already happening. You have to feel good that you are working, you have to teach yourself how to enjoy every moment. This kind of technique will never make you feel that you're already waiting for a long time. You will never feel the lack if you're having fun in anything that you do. Waiting is all in your head, if you can enjoy the boredom then you don't have to wait anymore. Be aware of what's going on inside of your head, study yourself, study why are you feeling that way. Condition your mind to love every action that is critical for your success, get use with those actions, throw away the habits that makes you slow and unproductive. Time will become very fast if you will love everything that is happening with your life. It's all about mastering the present moment and not rushing everything. Whenever you feel bored... just think about some other thoughts that will entertain you. For example if you're so bored on a very long line for the cashier... just think about your favorite game or an event in the past, think about your biggest crush texting you with dirty words, learn to entertain yourself. 

THROW AWAY YOUR CALENDAR

Don't look at the calendar, stop looking at the date. Time is just an illusion, it's just a number. The more you feel bad because days are passing by without making a progress the more you will get bored, you will quit later. Just live life as it is, forget the time. Forget that it's already Christmas and you haven't make any significant improvement yet. Forget that you're getting older, forget that it takes a lot of months or years to become successful. Just live in the moment and give everything you've got. Because time is making you feel bad, it's putting pressure on your shoulders, it's making you bored or stressed even more. Just live your life, chase what you want and wait for it no matter how long it takes.

LIFE IS NOT HOW FAST YOU ARE

A lot of people could already have been successful but they quit so fast. It's because they want to get success fast, they don't know that they're just a few steps away from their goals. It's because they got jealous with people who are making it fast, they were impatient, they get bored easily. They want money fast, they want fame fast, they want success fast and that's why they can't win. Life is not a race, it's not how fast you become a winner, it's how long you've been chasing your goals and how long can you hold success. So don't be afraid to wait, don't feel so low if you've been working hard for so long and yet the reward is still not what you expect, your time will come... just keep waiting and working. 

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