Sep 28, 2020

SECOND BY SECOND



If you really wanted to change you must be willing to feel the fire second by second because it's a serious thing. Change will not happen as fast as you wanted it, it will be done second by second. Change your thought second by second, change your habits and attitude second by second. Change your whole personality second by second to experience a new reality. It will be a lot of work, you need to endure a lot of pain, I'm not scaring you but it's the reality, if you want a new life then you better change the way you speak, think and move. Change your attitude, change your perspective, change your focus. 

DON'T BE AFRAID OF CHANGE

The reason why people can't get what they want is because they are afraid of what they want, as simple as that. They want t change but they are afraid of change, they were so afraid of the pain that it may cause to them, they were so afraid of the process. People can't have work because they are afraid to work, they were so lazy, they were making excuses. If you really want it then embrace it, don't hide, don't go anywhere else, embrace it now, do what you need to do now, second by second feel it, don't shy away from the moment because you only need the moment to change. You don't need anything to change, you only need what is in front of you, you only need your life, you only need what is going on. Embrace any kind of situation, don't try to escape from it and give your best... take full responsibility of your life, stop procrastinating, stop looking for comfort... this is how to change your life. Second by second do it, you hate your old life right? you hate the way you feel? your feelings will only change if you will change the way you handle things, your feelings will change if you're not doing the same crap over and over again. 

DON'T EVER THINK THAT ONCE YOU CHANGED THEN EVERYHTING WAS ALREADY GOOD

Change is a process, it is a forever reminder that you need to discipline yourself and never go back to your old bad habits again. Just because you stop smoking doesn't mean you're not going to smoke again, there is a chance that you might smoke again if you don't guard yourself enough to not smoke. Sometimes you will say to yourself just one cigarette is not bad and you will not smoke again only to find yourself smoking everyday again. Change is a process, it is a forever discipline and commitment, you will have to work on yourself everyday if you really wanted to change. Just embrace your goal, embrace your life and give your very best... as simple as that. Don't rush the process, you only need to make the best out of what is in front of you right now, appreciate that you are trying to change yourself, be happy that you are trying and giving your all to make a new life out of your ugly life. The process will be forever, it's a forever commitment to think the right way and act the right way, it's uncomfortable but for sure your life will improve, the quality of the results you will get will be amazing. 

LIFE IS NOT HOW FAST YOU ARE

Life is not about how fast you are it's about how steady you are . There are lot of people who were making fast progress, they become successful fast but where are they now? some are lost completely, some failed again, some don't know what to do with their lives anymore. You don't need to become successful fast, you don't need to change fast, just be steady, take it slowly but surely and consistently, this is not a completion, life is a battle of who is the most tough and persevering. So don't get jealous with other people who are making it fast, just do your own thing, trust the process and forget the results because it's not coming anyway, just focus on the process, the result will come in the future if you already paid your dues. Just embrace life second by second, do the process second by second, discipline yourself and for sure you will go further in life. Take your life slowly but always steady, you will become fast too if you're consistent and following the game plan daily. You don't need to compete with other people, you don't need to compare your life with other people, just embrace what you have and try to improve it one day at a time. Start with what you have, start now and never take any day for granted. Everyday is an opportunity to make your life a little bit better, everyday is a chance to experience something different, all it takes is the discipline and courage to face the unknown. 

ANYONE CAN CHANGE

An illiterate man can still learn how to read at the age of 60, a notorious criminal can still become a priest, a broke spender can become a minimalist and saver a lot of money to become rich. Change is hard but anyone can change, it's just a matter of forcing yourself to do the right thing, it's facing discomfort and pain. You need to reinvent yourself, do something you haven't done before. If you feel like working hard but not making any progress then do something different, tweak the process a little bit. Just become a little bit better, work harder, start faster, focus sharper. The little things that you do will make a big change if you take it seriously. Don't ever think that you already hit the best life that you can have, there is lot of room for improvement, you can get more and be more. So give yourself a chance to change, put yourself on the best position to succeed. 

NEVER THINK THAT YOU ALREADY KNEW WHAT'S GOING TO HAPPEN

Anything can happen, anything is possible if you work hard. Just because you're getting the same results over and over again doesn't mean you will get the same again today and tomorrow, anything is possible if you take everything seriously, don't ever think that you already worked hard, the truth is you only give your 50 percent effort or maybe even lesser than that. You can give more, you haven't given your all yet, give your all, give everything you can give. 

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