To make life so much easier, to cut expectations and live life happier... never think that you're entitled to get something. Because you are not, no matter how big you are and how rich you are... you will never get everything you want in just a matter of seconds or minutes, you will still have to wait. Someone will disrespect you, someone will never like you, someone will say nasty things against you, you will get disturbed, you will feel bad but every time you feel so entitled... you will feel worse. You're just another human being, you can never get everything you want, you can never control everything. You have to deal with it. No matter how much money you've got, no matter how much power you have... you can never force everything to follow your orders or go on your side because life is not perfect. Because at the end of the day you're still immortal, you are nothing special, what you have now is not permanent, so relax and don't ever feel so bad if you didn't get what you want. Life is really like that, sometimes you get it sometimes you don't, sometimes it's comfortable and sometimes it's really frustrating.
PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE
Being patient is better than being impatient. Being impatient will never get you anywhere. You will only have a lot of enemies, a lot of problems and a lot of stress. It is what it is, sometimes you have to wait, sometimes you have to feel the pain, sometimes people will treat you like a crap, this is how the world works, this is how life works. But if you are patient enough then you will be able to stay in the game of life for a very long time. Patience will make you enjoy life more. Be patient, some things will take time, you need to let the situation develop first. If you always feel that you're entitled to have something like respect, money, job, special treatment, peace etc. then you will have a hard time dealing with the uncertainties of life. You will always become frustrated if you're looking for something that can't be give to you right away, relax and wait if you need to. Always be patient, there is a right time for everything. Just like in chasing success, you will never become successful right away, even if you work hard for a month or a year... if it's not for you yet then it's not for you. That's why success only belongs to people who never give up, sometimes you don't know if it will still come but you still have to believe and work hard. It will come on the right time, but what you can't do is quit and do some other things that you really don't like just for the sake of having a relief. You need to stick with the process no matter how hard it is.
ALWAYS THINK THAT YOU'RE JUST A HUMAN
You're not invincible, you're just a human being like anyone else. Even if you're thriving now, you will still lose in the end, you will still experience mortality. You are not safe, you're still prone to tragedy so be humble and always think that you're just a human, you're no special but it doesn't mean that you have to down yourself, what I am talking about is stop having a big ego because it's only making your life harder. You're no different from others, you're just a human, so stop thinking that you are suppose to get this or get that, stop thinking that you should be given a special treatment. Life will become easier if you will stop expecting too much. Stop expecting a royal treatment, never feel bad if you can't be appreciated. If you will stay humble and patient then there is nothing else to worry about, you will always feel good. No matter what achievement you have, no matter how big you are... you will still grow old and become weak, your legacy will be forgotten, no matter how many cities you conquered they will still forget you. All legacies were forgotten, maybe we talk about them once in a while but the truth of the matter is they were already irrelevant. Is Michael Jordan still relevant to the NBA now? is Barrack Obama still relevant to America now? is Alexander the great still being feared right now? all the legends were forgotten, yes we know their names but the truth is we are less interested to them. We are more interested of what is happening now and not about their beautiful stories.
So be humble because no matter how special you are the next generation will forget you, they will not even care if you're walking on the streets, they will not even recognize you.
NOBODY CARES ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL
Your feelings doesn't matter at all, nobody cares if you feel bad or disrespected, you can make dramas and look for sympathy but they will only join you for a while, they will stop agreeing with you because they will get sick and tired of your dramas. So stop being too sensitive and weak, stop being a fragile, you need to be tough nowadays, the world needs you to become tough because most people now are weak mentally and emotionally, just a little failure or bullying is making them quit. So quit being a baby that always needs attention, you're better than that, you're stronger than that, do what you have to do, endure what you need to endure and just let time pass by, all the pain will go away. And speaking of suffering, it all starts in your head, you're the one who created your own suffering by welcoming unwanted thoughts that doesn't even help at all. So stop feeling like a victim all the time and just be strong, stay solid, stay grounded and just forget about all the dramas running inside of your head.
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