In life no matter how lazy you are, even if your DNA is about being slow, stubborn and useless... something will still force you to move, something will scare you to take actions. It can be your mom, your professor, your situation, your bills, the bank, your father or even the people that you don't like... something will force you to move and that is great, it is helpful to your life no matter how much you hate it.
My mom is always forcing me to study hard when I was young, of course I didn't like it because all I want is to play, party, drink and have some fun. But if she didn't do it then probably I'm just a garbage collector or some kind of a random criminal by now but because she was able to force me to study I was able to finish in college and I am a good man now, I am decent, I have morals and doing good in life.
So don't feel bad if something is forcing you to move, another example is the bank always calling you because you're behind in your mortgage payment... it is good, it is irritating but it is good because it will force you to work harder to get some money to pay what you owe. It's scary because anytime they can confiscate your house or car or any appliances but it's good because it's making you responsible.
An athlete has a rivalry with another athlete, they are competing against each other and trying to prove the world who is better. It's good because it's forcing them to train harder, both of them doesn't want to lose so they were training harder each and everyday. Another example is a noisy and disrespectful neighbor always ruining your day, it's not telling you something but the reality is it's forcing you to move to another neighborhood that is much quieter and more peaceful, it means you need to work harder to get money and leave that place, it is not for you, you deserve more than that. That noisy neighbor is just a reminder that life has so much to offer for you so don't settle for less, look for more, look for a better place. That disrespectful bastard is forcing you to move, you need to use your anger and frustration as a fuel for your success. Don't let your anger stop you, let it move you, it's a sign that you need to be in a sense of urgency.
LOOK FOR SOMETHING THAT IS ANNOYING
If you're lazy, if you have no direction in life... look for something that is annoying and irritating, it's a signal that you must take care of your business very well, it's a sign that you must start now and do something to avoid getting trapped in that situation forever. If your son is always complaining about his stuffs that are already too old and useless don't spank your son, see if it's really too old and cannot be used anymore, if the case is true then do something to have an extra money to buy him the stuffs he needed. If all of your friends are making fun of you and not treating you right and not giving you respect it means you don't have something to be respected for, you are a trash, you don't have anything that commands power. What you need to do is either you get rid all of your friends or become better so that they will respect you. Become better, earn more money, have a good job, be braver, you need to show them that you're not a joke so they will not treat you as a joke.
What annoys you can either make you or break you, it can stop you from growing or it can make you grow if you will push and do something about it. Don't just let things remain the same, don't just let an annoying thing punish you forever, do something about it, it's a sign that you must move and make your life better.
THERE WILL ALWAYS BE SOMETHING THAT WILL FORCE YOU TO MOVE
It can be simple things, it can be disgusting things such as a dirty kitchen, it will force you to clean it because you don't like it. It can be a dirty shoe, it will force you to clean it because you don't want to look like a trash, it can be something that you wanted to change or improve. If you're a basketball player and always getting benched by your coach because you don't have something that makes his mouth watery... do something about it. Practice dribbling, elevate your mental game by reading books that improves your mental toughness, make your leaping ability higher by strengthening your legs, practice shooting better. There is something you can do, you can take it personally, let your anger fuel you to change the outcome of your life, don't be like a stupid person forever that can't do anything about his life. You have the power to move, you can take matters into your own hands, it all depends on how you see things, it all depends on what are you doing to do if you get annoyed at something.
So whenever you feel lazy, look at your surrounding, find what is annoying and find a way how to fix it. If someone is instructing you to move like your mother telling you to study or your father forcing you to find a work... follow them, whatever pushes you to do something positive is right, it is good for you. Always remember that in order to change you need to do what is hard, some things are not hard it just looks or feels hard because you don't want to do it but if you will start it then it will become super easier. Moving is a matter of choice, always remember that if you want to have a better life then you've got to be moving forward no matter what, you can't be stuck in the same place forever wishing for luck or brand new life.
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