The reason why you can't start, the reason why you can't finish a process is because you're always thinking about the outcome, you're always judging yourself, you're always thinking that there is something wrong with what you're doing and it will not work. You already judge yourself before you even started and that's your biggest mistake. Stop focusing on the outcome, stop focusing on what you can get and you will start making results. The results will come naturally, you don't need to force it nor beg for it, you don't need to die for it, just give your best and everything else will be taken care of by itself. Don't think too much, don't worry, just take the first step and keep following through. Again, it doesn't matter if you're perfect, it doesn't matter if you're making results or not, what matters is you're giving your all and you have no plan of quitting when big problems arises. Discipline yourself to just do it no matter what, keep pushing, keep thriving, never stop until you're done.
SUCCESS IS NOT GUARANTEED ALL THE TIME
You have to realize that success is not guaranteed all the time, it's not in your control. Even the greatest players fail, even the smartest entrepreneurs fail, even the kindest parents fail. Never think that just because you exert an effort then you're already entitled of succeeding, that doesn't work all the time. Sometimes you will be tested for how many times, the universe will test your perseverance. So you need to be patient, success is guaranteed if you will not quit, but it's not guaranteed on the first or second try, sometimes you really have to try a million times. And that's why success is so elusive to many, because most people are quitters nowadays. So whenever you work so hard and expected to win but didn't... don't feel so disappointed, better things are coming, you just have to wait and work harder this time. If you lose then you lose, so what? you have an opportunity to try again tomorrow, you still have a chance, you will never run out of chance, you just need to keep working. You can never get success whenever you want it, you can't get it right away, you need to keep trying and pushing yourself, you need to wait if it's not coming now. Patience and perseverance is the key and nothing else. You never know when it will come, all you have to do is focus on your effort. Give your full maximum effort if you want it to come so fast, the reason why your progress is so slow is because you want to get it fast but your effort is so weak, you're moving slow, you're not hustling... you're waiting. Tremendous sacrifice is needed, you have to go all in, mind is on the prize 24 hours a day, focus on your work, stay on your lane.
DECIDE IF YOU'RE A QUITTER OR A TRIER
Are you a quitter or a trier, there are only 2 kinds of person in this world... the quitter and the trier. The quitter is the same as the loser, if you quit then you will never win as simple as that, it's game over for you and the worst thing is it will become your habit and cycle, once a quitter always a quitter. While on the other hand the trier will soon become a winner, he maybe losing for now but it's only just a matter of time before he win. The victory will come to him, all he need is to keep trying, he doesn't know when it will happen but for sure it will happen. Some people have a lot of stories about their lives, they keep telling that they almost did but some unfortunate events happened, it's a make believe story, it's a consolation prize for themselves because the truth is they give up, they quit and now they're living in regrets. It's easy to become a quitter, that's what most people do, but always remember that an easy path will get nothing and a harder path will give you everything.
There is nothing wrong if you're going to decide to quit, there's nothing wrong with that, just make sure you will not regret it. But it's impossible to not regret it because that's what haunts quitters.... REGRETS. Quitters will think everyday what could have happen if they continue, they were miserable and not satisfied with their lives. So if you don't want any regret in your life... just do everything you possibly can and never stop, that's the only way to get satisfaction in life.
JUST KEEP GRINDING BECAUSE IT'S THE ONLY WAY YOU'VE GOT
It's the only way you have, you wanted to win right? so you have to keep fighting, it's the only option remaining for you. I know it's hard, I know you wanted to quit because you can't see a progress but you will only regret it in the end if you quit. Just do it, just like what Shia Labeouf said, just do it, if you don't want to start all over again... just do it. Work like hell and you will see heaven. Grinding doesn't pick what time to start, it doesn't make excuses, it should be running 24 hours a day 365 days a week. I don't care if it's your birthday, I don't care if it's your dog's 2nd Year death anniversary, you have to stand up and see what can happen to day, force things to happen, if it's not happening then keep grinding, that has been the formula, that has been the secret ingredient to success... "GRIND", nothing else, you can't be wishing for something big but willing to exert small effort. You have to want it so bad like it's the only thing left for you to get, treat it like air you breathe, treat it like the food you eat and you will get it.
So if you don't have anything in your life, don't worry because you have the Grind, you can use it everyday to get what you want. Trust the grind, do it everyday, make it your lifestyle and your life will change.
Forget the outcome and focus on the steps, you can never control the results but you can always control your effort.
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