Apr 12, 2020

RELAX YOU'RE JUST A HUMAN BEING

Relax, you're just a human being, don't force yourself too much, don't feel sorry for yourself every time you fail or disappoint the people around you. You are so allowed to make mistakes, you are allowed to fail over and over again, just keep trying, there should be no pressure on your side because you're just a human being. It's not a sin to fail, it's not a sin if you're not perfect at all. Keep living your life, keep doing your thing. Embrace all the imperfections in your life may it be about skills, knowledge or physical appearance and continue to move forward and embrace your journey. Don't expect too much from yourself, you're not a super hero, you're just like others who have strengths and weaknesses.

YOU HAVE WEAKNESSES TOO

You are weak on something, and it's up to you if you're going to accept it or improve it. It's ok if you don't want to improve it, if you are ok with it so be it, just focus on your strengths instead of your weaknesses. You can be weak in math or geometry or reading or talking to people, you can be weak in sports, you can be slow in absorbing information, your body can be weak... it's all ok. You are not here to look perfect at all, it's your duty to move forward and give your best despite of your weaknesses. It's ok if you're weak on something because you are strong on some other things, you are gifted, all you need to do is look for that gift and open it. Strong people have weaknesses to so don't feel ashamed of yourself. And even if you're weak at something, it doesn't mean you're really weak, part of you is weak but some parts of you were also strong. You just need to discover your gifts and focus on it all the time, that's how to become successful in life.

THERE'S NOTHING WRONG ABOUT LOOKING WEAK

It's ok if you look weak, it's ok if people laughs at you, it's ok if you can't do such thing. Admit that you can't do everything, admit that sometimes you are scared and sometimes you can't nail it. It's better to be real than to pretend as someone who's strong but in reality is not. Keep looking weak, it's ok, never mind what people say, never mind the other things outside of you, focus on the inside and not on the outside. Because what matters is how you feel, you may look weak into the eyes of others but if you really feel strong about yourself then there is nothing else to worry about, what matters is how you feel so never mind their perception of you because it really doesn't matter at all.

YOU CAN LOOK STRONG EVEN IF YOU FEEL WEAK

Even if you feel weak, even if you're looking like a fool and it seems that you can't do anything right... you can still look strong if you keep fighting, keep trying. People will be impressed with you if you exert an very strong effort that nobody can match. It's not about the level of your strength, it's about your fighting spirit and effort. Show them that you really want it, show them that you are not easy to be defeated, show them your heart, show them a willpower that hasn't been seen before. Willpower can beat anything, your willpower can create miracles. Push forward even if you feel weak, your energy is unlimited, you're just a human but you can look like a beast if you will exert an effort that cannot be matched. So whenever you feel tired... don't stop, whenever you're losing... keep trying. The great ones are the ones who force themselves to still try even if the odds doesn't favor them.

When you feel weak now, all you have to do is move, all you have to do is try and find a way. That strength that is missing will be yours, you will regain your power. Never stop, keep moving forward, keep going for what you want because that is what life is all about... allowing yourself to win, allowing yourself to succeed by doing everything you can. Always remember that you have the willpower and it will never run out, it's always there, you can summon it all the time, you can push as hard as you can, you can become really unstoppable if you will just take matters into your own hands.

ALWAYS FORGIVE YOURSELF

Never feel guilty if you come up short, for as long as you did your best... that's already fine, there is nothing else to worry about. Forgive yourself because you're just a human being. But it doesn't mean that you will play the weak clown all the time, you're always better than what you are right now, you're not just pushing hard, if you will push yourself to the limits and always think big then you will discover how powerful you are and how strong you can be, you will realize your full potential. So forgive yourself if you come up short, never say sorry to people that you disappoint because they expect too much from you, it's ok. You are not here to impress people, you are here to express yourself and enjoy life. You can never enjoy life if you're always blaming yourself. It's not your fault if you fail, it's not your fault if you take the last shot in a basketball game and you miss. Always remember that it's better to miss than to not try. You will feel much better if you give your very best but still fail rather than playing safe all the time and thinking what could have been if you allow yourself to take risk. Always take risk, always take the chance, you have nothing to lose here, you are allowed to look like a loser or a fool because you're just a human being. Human beings were not perfect, there is no such thing as perfection, it's just an illusion. 

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