The reality that most people can't accept is... you can become really really happy without anything. It is possible, all you have to do is change your mind. Happiness comes from thoughts, it doesn't come from anything. Happiness is very simple you don't need to complicate it. Just follow the simple steps below and your life will change in just a matter of days or weeks.
BE HAPPY WITH WHAT YOU HAVE RIGHT NOW
You have a lot of things or reasons to become happy right now. Even if you don't have money, friends or food... you can still put a smile on your face. Be content with what you have and try to expand a little but everyday. Try to grow, it's either you grow financially, physically or mentally. You can grow everyday, you just need to believe in yourself and put a specific amount of effort. Just think about happy thoughts and you will become happy, it's all about being playful with your mind. This is the simplest way to become happy.... be satisfied. It's ok to aim for bigger things but you can only go to the next level if you will be happy with what you have right now. Be happy with your old car, small house, small pay etc. There are millions of reasons to become happy if you will just become appreciative of your surrounding.
DON'T SEEK FOR PEOPLE'S APPRECIATION TOWARDS YOUR WORK
Just work, keep working hard, if they appreciate you then fine if not then it's fine too, still keep working. Work is love, work will entertain you. But if you will work just for the sake of trying to impress people then you will never become happy, your happiness will be based from their reactions and appreciations which is a bad thing. If you will only become happy because of likes then you are weak, remember that you don't need anyone or anything to become happy, you just need the right mindset. Because at the end of the day, someone will like your work if you really put your heart and soul to it.
JUST BE YOURSELF NO MATTER WHAT
Never let the peer pressure let you do something that you really don't want. Be yourself, if you don't like what is being presented or thrown at you... don't bite it. It's your life, you got to do what you want to do. Because you will never become happy if you will pretend to be someone you're not. If you're poor then you're poor, if you're weak then you're weak, admit it... people will like you more if you're not trying to look cool. Just be yourself, it's an attractive trait that most people don't want to do because doing this will expose your weaknesses and lacks. You will become happier if you can be yourself because you are not pretending, you are not lying, you are simply living your life your way and you are not competing against anybody.
CHASE YOUR OWN GOAL
Keep pushing for your own goal, chase it and see where it takes you, see what can it make you. You will be the product of your own goal. Every skill, every experience, every emotion and knowledge... you will get it all from chasing your goals.
CREATE YOUR OWN LIFE
Design your own life, create your own pattern, make your own circle. Choose your own friends, never let others create your life. Make yourself and never let them influence you in making decisions, it's your life, you can do whatever you wanted to do with it.
DON'T LOOK FOR A PERSON TO SAVE YOU NOR HELP YOU
Nobody will save your ass, and that's a fact. If you will always wait for someone to help or save you then you're in big trouble, you will be waiting forever I guess. Again your happiness will be in jeopardy if you need someone to make your life better. Help yourself, you're the only one who can help yourself, you're the only one who can save your troubled life.
NEVER COMPARE YOURSELF TO OTHERS
This is the biggest sin you could ever done into your life. Why compare yourself to others? your life is unique, there is no other person the same as you, don't get jealous with them because you have your own gifts and it's your obligation to open it. Because you are disrespecting yourself if you are comparing yourself to others, you have your own strength so use it, focus on your own journey and nevermind if they are succeeding and you're not, you will have your own time, just stay with the grind and keep hustling... you will have your own moment to shine.
FORGET ABOUT TRYING TO BECOME RIGHT ALL THE TIME
Just do whatever you feel is right and detach from the righteousness of others. If they feel they are right and it's contradictory with your principle... so be it, if they think you are wrong then never defend yourself, just move on and continue living your life, having an argument with somebody is not worth it.
HAVE CONFIDENCE IN YOURSELF
Have confidence in anything that you do, believe in yourself even if nobody believe in you. People who trust themselves were happier than those who didn't. It's not a sin to become over confident, it's ok if you feel that way but make sure you will back your talk and you will work hard as much as you can. Be confident with your decisions, be confident that you will be alright. Having this kind of mindset will give you peace of mind, the result is happiness in your life.
NEVER CARE IF YOU SUCK
Never car if you don't have cool shirts or cool cars or whatsoever. Never care if they were laughing at you. It's ok if you don't look perfect, it's ok if you look like an old school boy that knows nothing about technology. Because at the end of the day... it doesn't matter how they feel about you, what matters is how do you feel about yourself.
BE HAPPY WITH WHAT YOU HAVE RIGHT NOW
You have a lot of things or reasons to become happy right now. Even if you don't have money, friends or food... you can still put a smile on your face. Be content with what you have and try to expand a little but everyday. Try to grow, it's either you grow financially, physically or mentally. You can grow everyday, you just need to believe in yourself and put a specific amount of effort. Just think about happy thoughts and you will become happy, it's all about being playful with your mind. This is the simplest way to become happy.... be satisfied. It's ok to aim for bigger things but you can only go to the next level if you will be happy with what you have right now. Be happy with your old car, small house, small pay etc. There are millions of reasons to become happy if you will just become appreciative of your surrounding.
DON'T SEEK FOR PEOPLE'S APPRECIATION TOWARDS YOUR WORK
Just work, keep working hard, if they appreciate you then fine if not then it's fine too, still keep working. Work is love, work will entertain you. But if you will work just for the sake of trying to impress people then you will never become happy, your happiness will be based from their reactions and appreciations which is a bad thing. If you will only become happy because of likes then you are weak, remember that you don't need anyone or anything to become happy, you just need the right mindset. Because at the end of the day, someone will like your work if you really put your heart and soul to it.
JUST BE YOURSELF NO MATTER WHAT
Never let the peer pressure let you do something that you really don't want. Be yourself, if you don't like what is being presented or thrown at you... don't bite it. It's your life, you got to do what you want to do. Because you will never become happy if you will pretend to be someone you're not. If you're poor then you're poor, if you're weak then you're weak, admit it... people will like you more if you're not trying to look cool. Just be yourself, it's an attractive trait that most people don't want to do because doing this will expose your weaknesses and lacks. You will become happier if you can be yourself because you are not pretending, you are not lying, you are simply living your life your way and you are not competing against anybody.
CHASE YOUR OWN GOAL
Keep pushing for your own goal, chase it and see where it takes you, see what can it make you. You will be the product of your own goal. Every skill, every experience, every emotion and knowledge... you will get it all from chasing your goals.
CREATE YOUR OWN LIFE
Design your own life, create your own pattern, make your own circle. Choose your own friends, never let others create your life. Make yourself and never let them influence you in making decisions, it's your life, you can do whatever you wanted to do with it.
DON'T LOOK FOR A PERSON TO SAVE YOU NOR HELP YOU
Nobody will save your ass, and that's a fact. If you will always wait for someone to help or save you then you're in big trouble, you will be waiting forever I guess. Again your happiness will be in jeopardy if you need someone to make your life better. Help yourself, you're the only one who can help yourself, you're the only one who can save your troubled life.
NEVER COMPARE YOURSELF TO OTHERS
This is the biggest sin you could ever done into your life. Why compare yourself to others? your life is unique, there is no other person the same as you, don't get jealous with them because you have your own gifts and it's your obligation to open it. Because you are disrespecting yourself if you are comparing yourself to others, you have your own strength so use it, focus on your own journey and nevermind if they are succeeding and you're not, you will have your own time, just stay with the grind and keep hustling... you will have your own moment to shine.
FORGET ABOUT TRYING TO BECOME RIGHT ALL THE TIME
Just do whatever you feel is right and detach from the righteousness of others. If they feel they are right and it's contradictory with your principle... so be it, if they think you are wrong then never defend yourself, just move on and continue living your life, having an argument with somebody is not worth it.
HAVE CONFIDENCE IN YOURSELF
Have confidence in anything that you do, believe in yourself even if nobody believe in you. People who trust themselves were happier than those who didn't. It's not a sin to become over confident, it's ok if you feel that way but make sure you will back your talk and you will work hard as much as you can. Be confident with your decisions, be confident that you will be alright. Having this kind of mindset will give you peace of mind, the result is happiness in your life.
NEVER CARE IF YOU SUCK
Never car if you don't have cool shirts or cool cars or whatsoever. Never care if they were laughing at you. It's ok if you don't look perfect, it's ok if you look like an old school boy that knows nothing about technology. Because at the end of the day... it doesn't matter how they feel about you, what matters is how do you feel about yourself.
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