If you have your dream... believe in yourself, not the other person beside you or in front of you. Because at the end of the day... dreaming is simply about believing in yourself and not what other people say. Because some people's advise maybe right but it may not work for you, just because it's working for them doesn't mean it will work for you too. We have different paths, we are all unique and copying someone may not be the right thing to do.
If you're a basketball player and you want to take the last shot but Lebron or MJ told you not to take it and pass the ball to them instead, are you going to listen to them? if they told you that just play defense but you want to play offense are you going to listen to them? remember that it's your dream, you want to shine too, it doesn't matter if you're right or wrong, what matters is you give yourself a chance to dream and get your own dreams too. Always remember that dreaming is an all or nothing thing, you have to give your all for it or else it will never be yours. Give your all including your reputation, identity, money etc. sometimes you need to do something really scary if you want to get a larger piece of cake, the bigger the risk the bigger the reward... as simple as that.
If you really feel that you need to do it your way then do it. No questions ask, no hesitation, no thinking about what your life would be if you didn't win. Set yourself free from the judgement of other people, sometimes you will get your dreams by unfollowing some people. They have their dreams, you have your dreams too and you need to think about yourself first before thinking about other people. Your dream should be selfish, you should believe yourself to the fullest and work the hardest to get it. After all, you only have one life, if you will let other people get their dreams before yours then you will have a lot of regrets in the end, you will always think what if you do it your way what do you think will be the result? you will blame yourself for not taking matters into your own hands, because after all... those people who were stopping you were not part of your life, they're just like another human like you chasing their dreams.
Support yourself first before supporting other people's dreams, you need to win first before they win. It's not that you are competing against them, it's just that you are prioritizing yourself first. Because that's what you need to do, you will only become really really happy if you will believe in yourself and things that you can do. You can hit the big shot too if you're not afraid to miss it. So take it and never think about the future, never think about missing.
KNOW WHO YOU ARE
You don't know who you are, you don't know your strengths and that's why you're always lost when pressure times is there, you always get overwhelmed, you're just following what every people say because you are so scared to make mistakes. Always remember that he who dares to do the greatest things is vulnerable to make mistakes or fail. But if you know your strengths, if you're ready for everything, if you're ready to suffer because of taking that big risk... there is a 50/50 chance that you will become successful. But if you play it safe... you have no chance at all, you are just wasting your life for nothing. So be ready to look bad, be ready to look like crazy and be ready to take the blame... that is what it 's all about. People can say the ugliest things to you, people can say that you're selfish and not thinking right but at the end of the day... you're just an ordinary person trying to please yourself by chasing your dreams and doing it your way.
Look at Chris Bosh, he always follow Lebron James and Dwyane Wade, he become the third wheel, he give way and didn't use his own power, he become the third wheel. Yeah they won championships but Lebron left Miami heat, his sacrifices were not recognized. But if he did it his way, if he take matters into his own hands then he will have no regrets. In life, you will only feel happy if you didn't let other people get your dreams for you. Because if the person you trusted left you... you will get lost, you will be like a child crying and complaining.
Because one day you're going to die, one day you will think that what if you did it your way and you never let other people dictate the outcome of your destiny. So while you still have the strength for now... never follow anyone, do it your way, it is best to do it your way rather than following other people's commands. Because those people that you think better than you will make mistakes too, they will fail too. Are you letting them control your own cards? are you just going to let them win or lose the battle for you? the point here is even if you're not that talented, even if people doesn't believe in you... you can still believe in yourself, you can also try, you can take risks and ignore what people say. So what if you lose? so what if you didn't make it? at least you know what your full potentials are.
TEST YOUR LIMITS
Test what you can do, fully believe in yourself. You don't need to look for approval, you don't need a company, you don't need people to trust you, you just need to trust in yourself. Trust your own process. After all, life is too short to be believing in what other people say. They maybe right at one point but what if you are more right? what if you will win if you do it your way? so don't believe those legends, don't take advises from people that you do not like. You can become an expert too, an expert in believing in yourself. The key here is to stop being afraid of losing. Because you already lost every time you give your power. You have the power to decide, take risks, take actions and do create things, you have the power to do it your way. Remember that it takes courage, you can shine if you will allow yourself to shine. Stop getting on your own way.
If you're a basketball player and you want to take the last shot but Lebron or MJ told you not to take it and pass the ball to them instead, are you going to listen to them? if they told you that just play defense but you want to play offense are you going to listen to them? remember that it's your dream, you want to shine too, it doesn't matter if you're right or wrong, what matters is you give yourself a chance to dream and get your own dreams too. Always remember that dreaming is an all or nothing thing, you have to give your all for it or else it will never be yours. Give your all including your reputation, identity, money etc. sometimes you need to do something really scary if you want to get a larger piece of cake, the bigger the risk the bigger the reward... as simple as that.
If you really feel that you need to do it your way then do it. No questions ask, no hesitation, no thinking about what your life would be if you didn't win. Set yourself free from the judgement of other people, sometimes you will get your dreams by unfollowing some people. They have their dreams, you have your dreams too and you need to think about yourself first before thinking about other people. Your dream should be selfish, you should believe yourself to the fullest and work the hardest to get it. After all, you only have one life, if you will let other people get their dreams before yours then you will have a lot of regrets in the end, you will always think what if you do it your way what do you think will be the result? you will blame yourself for not taking matters into your own hands, because after all... those people who were stopping you were not part of your life, they're just like another human like you chasing their dreams.
Support yourself first before supporting other people's dreams, you need to win first before they win. It's not that you are competing against them, it's just that you are prioritizing yourself first. Because that's what you need to do, you will only become really really happy if you will believe in yourself and things that you can do. You can hit the big shot too if you're not afraid to miss it. So take it and never think about the future, never think about missing.
KNOW WHO YOU ARE
You don't know who you are, you don't know your strengths and that's why you're always lost when pressure times is there, you always get overwhelmed, you're just following what every people say because you are so scared to make mistakes. Always remember that he who dares to do the greatest things is vulnerable to make mistakes or fail. But if you know your strengths, if you're ready for everything, if you're ready to suffer because of taking that big risk... there is a 50/50 chance that you will become successful. But if you play it safe... you have no chance at all, you are just wasting your life for nothing. So be ready to look bad, be ready to look like crazy and be ready to take the blame... that is what it 's all about. People can say the ugliest things to you, people can say that you're selfish and not thinking right but at the end of the day... you're just an ordinary person trying to please yourself by chasing your dreams and doing it your way.
Look at Chris Bosh, he always follow Lebron James and Dwyane Wade, he become the third wheel, he give way and didn't use his own power, he become the third wheel. Yeah they won championships but Lebron left Miami heat, his sacrifices were not recognized. But if he did it his way, if he take matters into his own hands then he will have no regrets. In life, you will only feel happy if you didn't let other people get your dreams for you. Because if the person you trusted left you... you will get lost, you will be like a child crying and complaining.
Because one day you're going to die, one day you will think that what if you did it your way and you never let other people dictate the outcome of your destiny. So while you still have the strength for now... never follow anyone, do it your way, it is best to do it your way rather than following other people's commands. Because those people that you think better than you will make mistakes too, they will fail too. Are you letting them control your own cards? are you just going to let them win or lose the battle for you? the point here is even if you're not that talented, even if people doesn't believe in you... you can still believe in yourself, you can also try, you can take risks and ignore what people say. So what if you lose? so what if you didn't make it? at least you know what your full potentials are.
TEST YOUR LIMITS
Test what you can do, fully believe in yourself. You don't need to look for approval, you don't need a company, you don't need people to trust you, you just need to trust in yourself. Trust your own process. After all, life is too short to be believing in what other people say. They maybe right at one point but what if you are more right? what if you will win if you do it your way? so don't believe those legends, don't take advises from people that you do not like. You can become an expert too, an expert in believing in yourself. The key here is to stop being afraid of losing. Because you already lost every time you give your power. You have the power to decide, take risks, take actions and do create things, you have the power to do it your way. Remember that it takes courage, you can shine if you will allow yourself to shine. Stop getting on your own way.
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