Mar 10, 2018

FEAR BECOMES REAL IF YOU RUSH

And the truth is... fear is not real, all fears are not real, they are just illusions. They never exist, you're worrying about something that you haven't seen yet, you're worrying about something that you're not sure if you're going to happen. You're so scared about failing that's why you're rushing to quit, you're rushing to end the process, and in the end you fail because you didn't work long enough, you're so scared of pain. You're scared in the beginning, in the beginning fear is real but because you rush... your fear becomes real. You're the one who bring it to life.

You're just a new driver, you're so scared of the accident, in the beginning your fear is not real but because you rush to step on the gas... you accidentally bump something on the road. Your fear becomes real because you're out of control, you rush, you panic that's why your fear becomes real.

Don't panic, even if you're in danger or high pressure... still don't panic, it's ok to become scared but don't ever panic because you will never be able to make solutions and think clearly if you're always in a state of panic. Rushing is for people who don't want to stay with the moment, they want to escape the situation but but by doing that... they're only make things worse. Why panic if you can take it slow? you will only look like a fool if you're panicking.

Stop rushing and start slowing, there's nothing wrong in being slow, all you need to do is be aware of what's going around you. It's ok if someone is pressuring you, just make sure you are not following his pace. Just stick with your own pace and keep moving forward.

If you will take it slow then you will be able to make good decisions, you will be able to control any kind of situation. Rushing will make your mind blank, it is a trap, once you rush then it's all over.

Be patient, you will feel good in a while, just take it slow and take it one step at a time. You don't need to move fast, pressure will reward people who can take it, it will punish people who are trying to shy away from it.

SO if you want to completely destroy fear... never panic, never rush, you can move fast but don't rush. Rushing will make you commit a lot of mistakes, it is the number one root of accident and mistakes. 

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