Mar 9, 2018

BEING HAPPY IS NOT THE SOLUTION

You always wanted to become happy that's why you can't become really happy, that's why you can't understand the real meaning of happiness. Happiness is not something that you should wish, it's not something that you should pursue everyday, you should let it come to your life naturally. You will only become truly happy if you understand that life is not all about happiness, it's all about welcoming different emotions and trying to process every bit of them.

You think you can become happy by being successful but what happens after being successful? you're still sad, you're still looking for something. You think that happiness comes when after buying that or buying this and a few hours later... you're sad again.

Happiness is not permanent, there is no permanent emotion in this world. You have to accept that life is a roller coaster of emotions, you are doing something because you think it will make you happy only to learn in the end that it's not the real answer.

Don't chase happiness, don't beg for happiness... just live your life and be yourself, if you're sad now so be it, if you're depressed now so be it. Never try to change your emotion because you will only go crazy by doing that, just endure and embrace any kind of emotion that you're feeling.

So what if you're not happy? is it the end of the world, if being sad and feeling low is the only emotion available in your system right now... embrace it, be proud of it, be appreciative because at least you can still feel something, some people can't feel anything anymore.

Chasing for happiness is a stupid move, it will never make you really happy. People are buying friends, cars, houses, impressing people but in the end thy are still depressed. Never count on something or someone for your happiness.

You can only become happy if you will let happiness come to your life naturally. Don't force it nor beg for it, you can fake happiness until it becomes real. Happiness is just a feeling, it's not a big deal, so what if you're sad? is it the end of the world? are you going to die by being sad?

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