Real happiness is not about winning, consuming, being successful, looking good, getting a lot of money or becoming popular. Real happiness means freedom, for once in your life try to become really free, express yourself, follow your heart and do it your way. Because you will become unhappy if something is restricting you and you're not doing something about it. Look at your life, something is stopping you right? it's either the idea of lack, your coach, being afraid of failure, critics, fear of being judged, poverty or even lack of confidence. But if you will power through and do everything in your power to change something or alter the momentum a little bit then you will feel really happy. A bench player who didn't pass the ball to their star player and took the shot is 100x happier even if he misses it, it's because he felt freedom for once in his life, it's because he gave himself a chance to win, it's because he faced his fears no matter what the consequence is. You have to try and give yourself a shot for your dream. If you have an idea in your head you need to unleash it and at least do something to make it real.
FREE YOURSELF
this is life, this is just a game. If you want to become happier then you need to free yourself, do what you want and never let anyone stop you. Never think that something own you, never let the external stop you from trying. If you want to become great then you need to allow yourself to take actions, express yourself to the fullest and never care about what people say. Stop chasing people and just chase your goals, strive to get better each day and you will feel much happier. Your life now is all about fear, you're scared all the time that's why you can't move, you're much better than that, you need to allow yourself to take actions and never stop evolving. Every time you hold yourself back you're disrespecting yourself. You are a free man, feel free to dream, feel free to take risks. You have nothing to lose here, you have everything to gain, you will only get happy if you will give yourself a chance to win and it will only happen if you don't care about them. It's easy to become happy, just move and do it your way.
YOU GET WEAKER BY PLEASING PEOPLE
You are not free if you're always trying to please people, you will never become happy if you're always thinking about how people think and feel, this is the number one path to misery. You will never be able to express yourself if you're always thinking about them. Prioritize yourself first, prioritize your mentality, you will never become mentally strong if you're always thinking about what people think because it will disturb you, it will make you think, it will make you feel bad all the time and that is dangerous. You will only get stronger by focusing on yourself and not caring about other people's loves, who are they? they will never feed you so stop caring about them. At the end of the day they will never pay your bills, never care if they don't like you, that the key.
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