The size of your problem is the size of your dreams. If you're focused on your neighbor's dogshit, if you're getting angry because of disrespectful people, if you give up easily because of traffic, if you're worried about what how you look and what people say then you have a very meaningless problem that is not helping you at all, it's not making you grow, it's only making you weak and negative. But if you're problem is how to build a business, how to make your empire grow, how to get better, how to get richer and smarter, how to educate your children then you have a very good problem. If it is about growth and accumulating then you're on the right track my friend. But most of the time you're too worried about other people's behaviors towards you, you easily got irritated with noise, you feel disrespected if someone take your parking space, you crash down easily when help is not around, you feel so weak when you're trusting somebody but he didn't show up when you needed him the most. You are getting weaker and softer every time you focus on the wrong problems, it's not helping you to evolve. Focus your mind on the right problems and solve it, this is how to have more power and control. Stop giving any time and attention for people and things that are bothering you for unimportant reasons, you need to get better everyday and simply give your very best if you want to have a better life. Feeling bad about what people say, worrying about what you did in the past is not helping you at all, you need to focus on a better problem that will make you gain something. The weaker and useless problems were really entertaining and fun to deal with but it will only give you so much trouble, it's putting you on a wrong direction.
NOTHING IS PERSONAL
Don't take anything personally because everyone has a different stories in their heads. If you will not force people to respect you or treat you right then you will have an easier life. They can do whatever they want, you have the power to ignore them and focus on chasing success instead, this is the best way to make a revenge... get big so you have not time thinking about them, the result is a much easier and lighter life. You are creating your own problem, the question is what kind of problem are you creating? are you focusing on something that is useless or beneficial? paying a house loan is a big problem but it's much better than criticizing the government and fighting with your neighbors. Choose the right war, choose something that will give you a leverage in the future. If your problem is how to grow your net worth or how to make yourself healthy then that is a very good problem.
YOU HAVE YOUR OWN LIFE
You can transform your life into something great or at least something better but the problem, is you're too focused on other people's lives that's why you have no time for your dreams. You have your own journey, you have your own path, focus on it and never let anything distract you. Your only problem should be about your growth and evolution, focus on a problem that will give you success rather than a problem that is giving you pain.
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