What makes you weak, stuck and powerless is being too attached with something or something that is trying to control or belittle you. You think that it's the only option, you're not giving yourself some chance to explore some other things and do it your way that's why you are being controlled and manipulated. If you want to become really powerful then you need to learn how to detach from something that is making you emotional and reactive. You need to think that you don't need anything. You don't need to impress anyone, you don't need any help, you don't need advices, you don't need a companion, you don't need money, you don't need power. If you can think this way then you will feel abundant and invincible, what you need will be attracted to you because you're not forcing anything. If you can just be brave to stand alone and appreciate what you have and not being concerned about other things or people that you don't have any control then life will become amazing, you will be able to live a stronger and happier life. Because you only become weak and powerless if you need something from someone, it's ok to ask but never expect that you are entitled of getting it. Never think that it's their responsibility to help you. Nobody owes you anything, if you can be ok with what you have and do it your way then you will feel so free and creative. Because you really don't need anything from anyone, once you learn how to play the game, once you develop the skill to stand for yourself and be responsible for how you feel... you will become unbeatable. It's only in the mind, if you can put everything into perspective, if you can just be happy doing it your way without being attached with someone then you will have a very good life.
EMOTIONS MAKES YOU WEAK
being emotional, sensitive, reactive and feeling entitled will only make you weak. Being too invested with your feelings will never do you any good because you will feel like a victim, you will have a very weak mindset and you will never be able to move forward because all you will do is complain, talk and look for a sympathy. Emotions will only stop you from taking actions, it will force you to think the wrong way. Just stop being emotional and just do what will make your life a little bit better. Being too angry at someone will make you weak because he who angers you controls you. Being too needy of someone's approval or attention will make you a slave because your happiness and peace depends on the external not on the internal. Never care if yo feel bad, don't stay on that state for a very long time, change your thoughts right away. Feel bad for 5 seconds and then move on. It's your ability to change your state fast that will determine your success and power. At the end of the day all the emotions does is make you slow and think, it will never force you to take actions. No matter what you feel... move forward and that's it, that's how to solve your problem, that's how to get stronger each day. Never let your feelings control you, control it and never care if it is positive or negative emotion.
USE ALL OF YOUR TIME
For yourself only, be selfish with your time and never let any subject from the past, other people, nonsense things eat it. Use your time for development and greatness. Use your time to build a better life, use it to develop some skills and mental strength. Never waste your time thinking about someone or something that doesn't help you at all. Because being emotional at someone will only make you frustrated, angry and depressed. You don't need to think or give energy for something that doesn't serve you at all. Use all of your time for yourself only and you will experience a different kind of life. Give time only to people who are really helping you and making you better. The focus is to move forward, you will never make any progress if you keep on thinking about people and external things. Remember that you don't need anything today, you just need your life, you just need your goals because it will give you a direction. DO it your way and never give up. Use all of your time to make you a better and stronger person, neve waste any single second because it will make a negative effect in the future.
YOUR LIFE WILL NEVER BECOME PERFECT
keep living your life, if you need to be alone so be it, if you need to do it your way so be it. Don't be afraid to take the risk, don't be afraid to become a rebel. Real power is when you can still take actions even if you have limited resources only, it's living your life to the fullest and not thinking that there is some lacking in your life. There will always be something that is missing, no matter how good you are you will never have a perfect life so there is really nothing to lose here because your mind will never get satisfied, it will always look for more. It's your responsibility to control your mind and be ok with having nothing, be ok with having less because life will never become perfect no matter how rich you are, you will still experience a problem, you will always feel that there is something lacking in your life.
SCULPT YOURSELF
All you need to do to become happy is to sculpt yourself. Try to improve everyday, make yourself, always choose trying to get better every single day and you will be entertained the right way. Rather than looking for something or wishing for something that you don't even need... just look for a small progress everyday and never stop, this mindset will make you more powerful.
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