You're mad at the small things because you're not focusing on the bigger things. You easily get distracted by small things that are not worth it. You really don't want what you want because if you do then you will never worry about petty things that are not worthy of your time and energy. You get disturb easily, you feel disrespected easily, you got angry easily because you're not focused on your dreams. You are more focused on your emotions and that's why you're always struggling and feeling like a victim. You need to ignore the small distractions and problems if you want to prosper. Everything that is not inside of you should be ignored, every external things and people that doesn't resonate with your values and mission should be rejected right away.
FOCUS ON WHAT YOU HAVE CONTROL THE MOST
Focus on your decisions, actions and way of thinking. These are the things that you have control the most. You can never control the decisions and actions of other people, you can never control what is outside of your control. Let them think how they wanted to think, let things flow naturally and never waste your energy stopping something that you don't have control. Taking actions is what matters the most, you will always feel bad if you are lazy and not chasing something. You should focus on the bigger thing, it can be buying a house, creating your own business, making your body healthy, making your mind sharper, buying a new car or even dating a hot chick. Focus on the bigger and more meaningful problem rather than letting a random incident make you feel negative. You're better than that, you can always choose to be greater than your situation. Stop acting like a victim, stop looking for a sympathy and stop creating your own problem.
NEVER THINK THAT YOU'RE ALWAYS RIGHT
Never think that you're better than others, never think that you're always right because you will always get offended by doing that, you will become sensitive and you will always feel like a victim. Just let people be who they are and focus on your own journey, focus on getting better. Never think that you're special, never think that they are better than you or you better than them. Stay neutral all the time and never feel inferior again. Stop feeling so insecure, sometime you are the only one who is creating your own issue. Never chase respect, never chase validation and praises. If the like you they like you, if they hate you they hate you, so be it. Focus on the bigger thing which is trying to improve your mindset. Stop being fooled by the stupidities of people and start creating your own emotion.
You are not perfect and you will never become. Nobody is perfect so forgive them easily if they offended you. Stop making a small thing bigger, you need to do what will make your life better. Focus all of your time and energy for the process of building a stronger character which is not caring about what people say and not letting them influence your actions or emotions. You feel happy because you feel happy, you feel sad because you feel sad and not because of anything that is outside of you. Never let small things affect your daily living, just live your life and be content with what is going on, stop looking for dramas, stop looking for nonsense and live your life the way you wanted it to live. No BS, no stupidity, no uselessness. Be aware of how you think and feel and judge your thoughts if it is right or wrong, if it is wrong then get rid of right away and focus on what's more meaningful to your life. at the end of the day you're mad because of your thoughts, because of the way you think and not how people or life treats you.
IF YOU REALLY BELIEVE IN YOURSELF
If you really believe in yourself then you will never get mad at anything or anyone, you will let things flow even if you're offended, you will focus on what matters the most which is your growth and goals. You will choose to use your energy on things that are worthy and in your control. If you really believe in yourself then dramas will never make you feel something, you will never give attention to anything that is not even helping you to get better. If you really believe that you're going to win then you will never feel bad at anything that disturbs your mind, you will let it go fast, you will never feel excited about it or aroused about it, it will never make you tick, you will just focus on what you can do, you will put all of your actions and energy on something that is giving you a small progress.
YOU FEEL ENTITLED OF SOMETHING FOR THE WORK YOU NEVER DID
You feel mad because you're not getting what you want, the question is did you really gave your all to get it? did you really push yourself to the limits and go to the extreme? did you really do what most people can't do or aren't willing to do? did you really use all of your skills, time and energy to get what you want? did you leave everything on the line and sacrifice big time? if not then shut up, stop acting like a victim and start working on yourself. Stop feeling entitled because it's making you so soft and sensitive, it's only creating a drama. If you didn't work insanely hard then shut your mouth and change your lifestyle. You're mad because you are not focus, if you are focused on the work itself instead of the outcome then you will never be mad like that. You're mad because you want it now, you're too impatient, you're not thinking right, you just want it but you don't want it bad enough.
YOU WILL GET STRONGER AND STRONGER
You will only get stronger and stronger if you will focus on your own life, focus on what makes you better and stop giving milliseconds or hours for something that's pulling you down and making you mad. You need to move forward all the time. You will get stronger and stronger if you will start to realize that you don't need to give attention to everything. Place your eyes on what you want and not on what you don't want.
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