Choose freedom over results, control, nice self image, people's perception of you and money. Always choose freedom because it is the only thing that will make you feel happy and successful. Most millionaires were making tons of money but they don't have freedom, they can't choose the life they want, they're too scared to lose their millions and that's why they feel so stressed everyday, they're always chasing something, they're always making problems on their own. You can have freedom and at the same time become rich, it's just a matter of perception and setting up your life for success. If you're too attached with something like success, money, girls etc. then you will never feel happier, you will always worry and stay anxious. Forget what stops you, ignore the resistance, just focus on what you can do and what you want to do. Feel free, for as long as you're not hurting anybody then you will be alright.
DON'T EXPECT ANYTHING
Don't expect kindness but be kind, don't expect success but work hard, don't expect love but make love, don't expect something in return because it's making you attached with something and it's destroying your freedom. So what if you don't get anything back? so what if you're losing? don't attached yourself with anything because that's the only way to feel free and creative. That's the only path to progress. If you're always expecting success and results or respect then you will never feel free, you will always be restricted, you will never be able to express yourself. Attachment will make you weak, stuck and depressed. Avoid attaching yourself from external things or people if you want to have a much better life. Don't expect anything from anyone, don't expect anything in the future, you can want it but don't let it ever control your life. At the end of the day you will only feel bad if you're expecting too much especially if your expectations were not meat, it's better to be moving forward and doing it your way and creating your own rules rather than expecting goods from everything.
DESTROY YOUR IDENTITY
Destroy your identity and never care about what people think of you. Just express yourself, be yourself and never care if you look like a fool, you will feel stronger if you will do it your way. You must be willing to fail, look bad, look like a fool, weird or insane if you want to experience real freedom. Because people are going to judge you and if you're too soft to take it then you will only feel so bad. You need to be ok being called every names on the book, you need to feel comfortable being laugh at. Forget your identity, forget who you are if you want to feel free and creative. If you want to be able to live your life to the fullest then never care about what other people think. Laugh at what they say and learn to feel nothing from it, train yourself to become mentally tough. Because at the end of the day you feel, think and make decisions because of people, you're so afraid of people, you love them more than you love yourself. Stop giving their words a deep meaning, you know yourself, if you really know who you are then you will never pay attention to their words and actions.
YOU WILL NEVER FAIL IF YOU WILL ALWAYS CHOOSE FREEDOM
Detaching from everything means invincibility, it means you have nothing to lose and you're letting life flow by itself. It's not that you will live like a bum and be passive for the rest of your life, of course you will still compete and desire something, you will still give your very best but you will never allow results or the outcome make you feel bad. You don't care if you lose because in your mind you really have nothing to lose, you're just playing with life and see what is possible for you if you push yourself to the extreme. Just keep trying in life and you will get a lot, forget the result, forget the destination if you want to go further, just keep trying and forget what will happen next. Enjoy the process, enjoy your journey and never feel so attached with the outcome. For as long as you already gave your best, that is enough, live with that and feel no regrets.
NOBODY CARES ABOUT YOU
nobody cares about you, nobody cares about how you look or how you feel. They have their own life so why will you concern yourself too much with what other people say. Just live, they don't care if you suck, they will laugh at you but they will never think about you the whole time so feel free and never feel cautious of anything. Their judgement is their choice, there is nothing you can do about it, how they perceive you is out of your control. If they don't like you they don't like you, there is nothing you can do to change how they feel towards you. Stop giving their thoughts of you any power, if you will just be yourself anytime you want and anywhere you want then you will become invincible. You don't need to please other people, you don't need to be kind all the time, be nice and gracious but don't ever do something just to make people like you. At the end of the day they will judge you so be it, just act the way you want to act and carry on.
BELIEVE IN YOURSELF
You will only become free if you will believe in yourself, just believe, believe that anything is possible, believe that you can become anything you want to be. It's just a matter of taking matters into your own hands and giving everything you've got. Push yourself to the limits everyday and go to the extreme. Do the impossible and never let expectations stop you, work hard even if you're seeing zero results, go the extra mile even if you're struggling so bad.
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