You've been pleasing a lot of bums out there, you're trying to look good and kind all the time, you're being nice to them so that you won't look bad and they will treat you nice. But usually it doesn't happen, the more you please people the more they abuse you. Why not just please yourself? why not be good to yourself and follow your heart? maybe it's the real way to happiness. Pleasing other people will never get the job done, it will never give you real happiness, you are only faking yourself by doing that. The most important person that you should love is yourself. You should allow yourself to become creative, expressive and rebellious if needed, stop trying to please everyone because they're not going to pay your bills. It's your life, you have to decide where it goes, never let anything control you, never let anyone decide what is best for you. Please yourself by believing in yourself and making decisions that comes from the deepest part of your heart.
NEVER CARE IF YOU FAIL OR SUCCEED
Never care if they like you or not, just do what you think is right, just do what your heart tells you to do so. Just be yourself, try with all your might and take the risk. Try pleasing yourself by giving yourself a chance to win. Never follow others who are playing it safe, you have to believe in yourself, that's the best way of pleasing yourself. If your coach tells you to pass the ball and never take the last shot... take the last shot. If your leader is telling you to do this, do that, never follow, you need to follow your heart and forget about what's going to happen next. Never care about their comments, critics, harsh advices, anger or secret hatred. Just be yourself and put yourself on a better position to get better. It's not about being great, it's about striving to become great and not minding if the path was so hard.
IF YOU NEED TO BE ALONE SO BE IT
So be it, if they don't like you so be it but never please them to like you because they will control you, you will become a loser in the end. At the end of the day you don't need to please a person if he really likes you. You just need to be yourself and prioritize yourself, stop thinking that they are the most important people in your life, stop thinking that nobody likes you. More people like you, you just can't see it because you're too focused on chasing other people who doesn't like you from the very beginning. You can be a lone wolf and still thriving, don't be afraid to do it on your own. Don't be afraid to lose friends, it's ok, just be yourself all the time because it's the best thing you can do. Stop doing something for someone who doesn't deserve your time and energy, never let anyone use you.
THINKING TOO MUCH IS A DISEASE
Why think too much if you're good or not? why think too much about what people say? why think too much if you're going to do it or not? at the end of the day all you need to do is live according to your rules. You don't need to think about what people say, just be yourself and give your best, take chances, leave everything on the line and never stop. Stop thinking and start doing, you will feel much better if you're taking actions rather than gathering all the data or worrying about what could went wrong. Stop thinking too much because it's the rot of a negative emotion, negative thoughts produces stress and negative emotion. Don't worry too much, just move forward and you will be good, don't stop, don't procrastinate and try to change your fate. You can finish anything, you can go further, you can take one step now, why do you need to worry if you can move forward all the time? There is nothing to lose, thinking too much about the future will only cause pain so stop doing it. Worrying about the future creates stress, focus on the now and you will be alright.
DON'T BE AFRAID TO LOOK MEAN
Don't be afraid to look nasty and mean, if you're prioritizing yourself then you will be labeled as selfish and not nice. It's ok, just let them talk while you're doing the walk. At the end of the day you're only one true ally is yourself. Nobody can love you more than you can give to yourself so why will you even bother about what other people think? move, talk, think, decide naturally. Always follow your heart and never be afraid of what might happen in the future. Learn to reject and idea, learn to disagree, don't be a yes man forever. At the end of the day people will still judge you no matter how nice you are, stop faking yourself, stop being so nice even if you don't want it. Learn to be yourself all the time and never hide anything, never weak a mask, never pretend to be something you are not.
Your life is all about you, it's not for them, it's for you. You are the star, you are the director, you've got to decide where your life goes and stop looking for something to complete you or make you happy. You can be happy by just being yourself and naturally letting something in without forcing it. You decide how your circle looks like, you decide what to wear, you don't follow the trends, you don't let people dictate your rhythm and decision making. Be fearless, and even if you're scared... accept that feeling and continue to keep moving forward, it's not that hard, you just need to be confident in everything that you do. Trust the process, trust every action that you take knowing that it will guide you to the right path. At the end of the day you will believe in someone, why not believe in yourself?
Forget anyone else, forget anyone who is trying to stop you or belittle you. Execute your ideas, apply your own style, there's no need to follow them because at the end of the day they will never be at your side, you are the only one who can help yourself. Stop pleasing people and start pleasing yourself. Be kind to yourself, allow yourself to win and shine, allow yourself to take risks. Don't be afraid to take the blame, don't be afraid to fail. Because at the end of the day it's not about winning or losing, it's about trying and not giving up.
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