If you want to have an edge in life and get one or 2 steps ahead of others... you need to break the rules a little bit. It's not that you will do something illegal or destructive, you will just sometimes do it your way and test some methods that are outside of the norms. You need to become creative a little bit, push a little bit and never give up. You have to believe in yourself and do what most people can't do. If they say you need to rest for at least 8 hours just rest 7 hours, if they say you need to drink 8 glasses of water drink 5 liters of water, if they say you need to rest on sundays don't rest on sundays, if they say you need to stop taking risk then take more risk, if they say you need to do this or do that... do it your way and never let their rules stop you. You need to test every possibility and create your own opportunity. Because if you will wait for their orders, if you will follow the norms then you will stay on the same rut forever. To get out of the rut you are in, you need to believe in what you can do and never be afraid of what people say. Go to the extreme, push yourself to the limits and never do what normal people can do. You have to become super extraordinary by experimenting on your own technique and ideas that may or may not work for you.
EVERY PATH IS RIGHT
There is no such thing as a specific way to live or become successful. Each one of us has his own path. You better stay on your lane and never compare yourself to others. Just give your very best and stay committed and you will get there. Good thins happen to people who doesn't give up. Most people will give up when it's hard, if you can just take one more step after the other when it's difficult then you will become unstoppable. You have to keep going and keep taking actions. Don't be afraid to make mistakes because every action is the right action if your intention was right. There is no right or wrong here, every mistake is also contributing. You can win by making a lot of mistakes, you just need to keep going and never think about giving up just for a second. You have to stay focus and believe in what you do. Stop believing in what people say, stop listening to their stupid advice because it's your life, you can do whatever you wanted to do with it, you are free, nothing can stop you, you can do it your way.
YOU'RE DOING WHAT THE CROWD IS DOING
That's why you're getting the same result as them... you're doing what they've been doing. You're just following the failures, you need to do better than that and go to a different direction. If they go left you must go down, if they go up you must stay at the middle. Never follow them, you need to stay unpredictable and weird. If you want a different result then stop copying their style because they suck, they were all the same and getting the same. Don't speak how they speak, don't act how they act, you need to follow your gut and execute your own ideas. You will get ridiculed in the beginning but once you're making a result... all of they will kiss your ass. Most people were just followers, they can't do things on their own because they want an assurance. They were so scared to fail and suffer. If you're use to failing and feeling the pain... you will become unstoppable, something special will happen to your life.
STOP IDOLIZING BUMS
You need to idolize yourself, the people you saw on social media were all fakes and full of filters. Their stories were scripted and fabricated. Never follow a false mesiah, you need to follow your own heart and become different than the others. Because they were no better than you, their followers were all failures so if you follow them then you're a failure too. You need to follow your own journey and stop giving time for free, if you are letting them use your time then you're in big trouble, you will go down. You need to stop idolizing bums and start believing in yourself, do what you can do at the moment and stay in power. Because at the end of the day they will never even give you something, they will never help you, they will never make you grow, they're only using you for their own good, you better stop following others, stop liking people because it's not healthy for you. Love yourself, it's not about being narcissistic, it's about giving yourself an edge. Give more time for yourself and journey than others, you need to be mindful of what you're doing and always feel great every time you take an action that will improve your situation. Watch yourself if you are wasting time, if you want to get ahead then stay disciplined and focus on your goals, focus on trying to get a little bit better and be patient when results are not coming in.
FOCUS ON MOVING FORWARD
Never care if what you're doing is working or not, just keep on moving forward and find a way. Never stop pushing yourself to the limits. Fall in live with making mistakes and never feel low about it, feel proud that you show up and did something. Most people were only good in noticing other people's mistakes but the truth is they're so afraid to try something for themselves, they're so afraid of making mistakes that's why they're so stuck on the same place forever. Just keep on trying and never get tired of moving, trust me... one day is going to be your day. The difference between a failure and a successful is a failure quits so easily while a winner will keep on trying until the end.
BELIEVE IN THE POWER OF SMALL GAINS
You gain something everyday after making sacrifices and working hard, you may not see or feel it for now but it's ok, repeat again tomorrow. Keep gaining small everyday and it will become big one day. Don't be afraid or impatient with the slow progress. Don't get frustrated if you're not making a blast, for as long as you're not stopping... you will get there, you will get to the level that you want. all you have to do is start now, take actions now and then follow through everyday, believe in the power of consistency. Time is fast, you will never even notice that you already evolved so fast. Just keep going, keep trying and push yourself to the limits.
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