You're so full of shi* and you don't know it, or maybe you know it but you can't admit it. You're focusing on the problems and subjects that are not even helping you to become better. You have no direction, you think you're cool, you're pretending to be doing the right thing, you have no dedication. You just give your time and energy to different things so easily, you're not controlling yourself and directing yourself towards your dreams and ambitions. You're full of crap, you're not doing the right thing for your life, you think you're in control of your life but the truth is... you're lost and is not going anywhere. You're full of useless things, you have everything you need but you think you don't have what it takes to succeed. Even if you don't have any support or anything... you still have what you need because you're alive, you have a brain, your full body is working and that's all you need. Be ashamed of yourself because there are some people who are completely disabled but are richer and more successful than you. It all depends on how you use your time. If you're using your time for getting better then your life will get better too. But if you're using your time for activities that will not even give you something then your life will become worse, as simple as that.
FOCUS ON YOURSELF
Never care about what other people are doing, never care about what other people are thinking. Just focus on yourself, make yourself better each day. You need to give all of your time for yourself, focus on improving, focus on trying to think better and do better. Do more each day, visualize success, think about winning and never entertain useless thoughts that will only mess up your mentality. It's not about being isolated, it's about using your time the right way and not letting useless information distract you. Life will become easier if you will focus on yourself, the reason why it's hard is because you're letting outside noises control you. You're reacting too much on what other people say, you give importance to what is unimportant, you're letting the outside control you, focus on the inside and life will become much easier. The only problem is yourself, you should be focusing on how to tame your mind and create new habits that will make you closer to success. Stop giving any attention to things, subjects and people that will not even give you something. Focus on trying to make your life a little bit better and you will become very happy with your life.
CREATE A BOUNDARY
Create a boundary for everything. If you need stop seeing and bonding with other people then stop it. If you need to stop a certain activity that's not helping you to improve stop it. You must stop something, there must be a limitation. If you only need to watch TV 1 hours a day to become productive then to do it, if you need to stop seeing your girlfriend and making love with here twice a day then stop it, if you need to stop buying things that you need to just to save more money for a better use in the future then stop it. If you need to stop sleeping all day long then stop it. You must learn how to control yourself, set a boundary and follow it, never disobey it or else you will have more bad habits. Create a boundary so that your time and energy will be use for more important activities that contributes to your growth. You must learn how to say no, you must learn when to stop, don't do something because it's too easy and entertaining, you need to stop something right now if it's derailing your progress. Stop pretending that you don't know that it's gonna make your life worse, every time you pass on the necessary work and choose having fun... you're setting up yourself for failure or misery.
SOMETHING FUN AND EASY IS NOT HELPFUL
This is the saddest truth about life... if you don't have discipline, if you can't practice delayed gratification then you will never have a better life, you will keep hitting the rock bottom if your focus is to have fun. Look around you... everyone who's practicing the saying YOLO were all bums, they don't have disciplines, they're not thinking about the consequences that will happen once they did a lot of silly mistakes. All they want is to party, take drugs, play video games, hang out with cool kids and act like they're cool. And look at their lives... they don't have any direction. If you want to make a progress then you need to practice delayed gratification, you need to practice perseverance and discipline. Not all fun is fun, it looks like fun but it will give you a miserable life once you're done with it. Everything that is easy, accessible and requires no effort will never reward you, the reality is it's fooling you. Yes it is entertaining you for now, it's cool but it will put you on a worse position, it's not teaching you anything, it's not giving you anything, all it does is waste your time and poison your mind.
ADMIT THAT YOU'RE A BUM
Admit that you're full of shit, admit that you're a bum so that you will be able to change yourself. The also big reason why you can't improve is because you think you're already good, you think you can't make mistakes, you think you're in control but the reality is you're out of control, you're a bum, you have bad habits and bad attitude and you can't change it. Admit that you're the one who's destroying your own life and change it. Be humble, accept that you need to work harder than everyone else, admit that you're not entitled of anything, admit that you're not special so work harder than everyone else and never stop. Be a down to earth person, always think that you need to grind and make sacrifices, admit that life is not easy and that you need to make an extra effort and make huge sacrifices to make your life better. You can't be having a good life if you will not discipline yourself to do the most important things. Change now or you will never change forever, create the good habits now and get rid of your old a and bad habits. It's simply about changing your mind, changing the way you operate everyday, it's not going to be easy but it's worth it.
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