Another game plan that was so simple yet hard to execute especially if you can't see big time results. Just make pushing as your number one hobby, do something, stop looking for results every now and then, don't focus on the results and simply focus on the process, be a man on a mission, push as hard as you can and always see to it that you're moving. Take it one step at a time, even if you're not progressing, even if you can't come up with something... just push, it should be your habit, it should be your priority and nothing else. Because if you will not push then you will be on the same place as yesterday, nothing will improve in your life, you will be the same bum like before. You have to push now. Stop complaining, stop talking, stop making excuses and just push. Whatever you can do to somehow put yourself on a better position... do it, do it fast, do it without any form of hesitation. Be like a beast, be an animal that never stop, you have to make yourself the hardest working person in the world if you want to get on top. It's going to be hard, nothing is going to be easy but it is what it is, you really have to go through hell if you want to prevail. Don't be afraid to work hard and still get nothing, don't be afraid to get tired, just keep pushing until you finally make a breakthrough.
VISUALIZE WHILE PUSHING
Visualize that you are winning, visualize that you are making progress and improving. You should really believe in yourself so that you will never stop pushing. See yourself getting what you want, see your situation getting better, feel it, see it and repeat everyday. Train your mind to become excited with the process you have to reprogram your mind from negative to positive. That is why it's so important to visualize everyday. Work harder to make your belief stronger, trust that one day all of your hard work and sacrifices will pay off, you have to believe in yourself to the fullest, count on yourself because nobody will be there to help you. You are alone in your journey, nobody will support you if you're not making any result. So the best thing to do is just keep going and never stop.
EMBRACE THE CHAOS AND DISTRACTION
Someone or something will distract you, there will be an unexpected disturbance but it is what it is, that's how life works. Your schedule will not be followed, something will suddenly show up to serve as an obstacle. But you have to push through it, you have to ignore it, embrace that the journey will never be perfect but never take away your eyes off you goals. Embrace the chaos and distraction, accept that there will be unexpected things that will come. That's why you need to be strong, you need to go back to your work again, try hard to stay focused, control your mind, place your attention on things that really matter and avoid the things that are stopping you from moving.
WHEN SOMEONE IS STOPPING YOU
If you're chasing your dream suddenly someone will try to stop you and will tell you to quit. Especially if your dream looks impossible, if it's not realistic. Your wife, parents, friends will tell you to quit because they don't want you to fail, they don't want you to get stuck on the same place for so many years. The best thing to do is don't talk, don't get mad at them, don't hate them, don't argue with them, just shut up and push. You know what's inside of your heart, you know you can do it, even if the chance of winning is very slim... still take it. You have to close your ears and keep pushing forward. Even if you get hurt so bad by their words... still move forward and never hate them, just keep it to yourself, don't talk, don't make dramas and just keep pushing. This is the best way to keep the momentum alive. Never waste your energy to people who doesn't support you at all. You're the only one who can support yourself, you and yourself are alone in this journey. Don't expect people to support you if you're not making money or progress, they will try to stop you and will even put you down. They're not helping, they love you but they want you to become realistic, what if your dream is not so realistic? you have no choice but to stop listening to them and go back to the process. It's your idea, it's your vision, nobody will see it, it's your duty to make it real, what everyone say is none of your business, the only business you should be dealing with is your goal and nothing else.
AT THE END OF THE DAY YOU WILL NEVER GET ANYTHING FROM STOPPING
Perseverance thrives all the time, it prevails and conquer any obstacles. At the end of the day you will never get anything from stopping or quitting, this is a basic thing yet people can't get it because they wanted to win fast. Victory belongs to the most persevering, there is no argument on that, we've seen it before, we've seen it from time to time that great people were hit by scary adversity but they overcome it. Stopping is for the weak, it's for people who doesn't want to struggle, it's for people who just wanted to win but doesn't want to work. You will never get anything from stopping, at least you have a chance if you are moving forward, the game will never be over if you don't give up.
DON'T TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY
Just be happy that you are moving, be happy that someone is stopping you, it only means you're doing the right thing. If there is a lot of resistance then it means you're on the right path, obstacle is the way, fear is the compass. Of course you will be scared of failing because you already invested a lot of time and energy on it but you have no choice to keep moving forward if you really wanted to win. Don't take anything personally, let them say what they wanted to say, don't feel bad if you can't make results. Stop making dramas, stop blaming the world, always remember that emotions will never help you. If you will let them affect you then you already lost the battle. Just treat it as a game, treat it as nothing, enjoy the dirty journey, enjoy the ups and downs and simply keep moving forward all the time.
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