Do the opposite of who you are right now to get better results and change your life as simple as that. You've been doing the same crap over and over again and does that make a difference? You're like on a rat race, you will never win because you're not progressing, you're moving but not improving, it's time to attack a different approach now. Look at all of your thoughts and habits and do the opposite of them. If you're lazy, work hard. If you're always hesitant, be bold. Move faster if you're slow, believe more if you're doubting yourself before, do 20 if you can only do ten before, be positive if you're negative before. If you feel less before then feel more now. Always do the opposite and you will see a different result. Because the results if your life was based on your thoughts and actions, if you want to attract different things then you need to do something different this time. Stop living like a bum forever, you can become great and it all starts today. It's going to be hard but all the sacrifices will give you rewards in the future. If you want to change then you have to embrace the stress, embrace having a hard time, embrace the process and never go back to your old self again.
BE EARLIER
Be early to start, be early to arrive, be early everyday, don't waste time, don't delay something, when you need to do it just do it and stop thinking too much. The reason why you're late is because you're full of shi*, you're thinking too much, you're doing a lot of stupid things that will not even make your situation better. It's all about the speed, success loves speed, greater opportunities were attracted to speed. So look at your life, if you're not making something happen then it means you're too slow. It means you're thinking too much, you're procrastinating a lot and you're pampering your excuses, you're taking care of your feelings. Ignore your feelings if you want to succeed, it doesn't matter if you feel bad, what matters is you keep pushing and you don't make excuses. Eliminate everything that makes you slow. The constantly checking of your Facebook, watching a lot of news, doing the important things later, stopping what you're doing and doing some other things, thinking about nonsense thoughts... these are some of bad habits that slows you down, you need to eliminate all of it if you want to become successful. Sacrifice your happiness, sacrifice feeling good in order to make an improvement to your life. Just always be early, start fast and finish strong. If there is something you need to do... start it right away without making any excuses, start it even if it doesn't feel right... trust me, you will feel so much better later.
NEVER CARE IF THEY SAY YOU CHANGED
People will notice that you've changed, it's because you have a totally different habit now, very far from your old habits. They're not on the same level as you anymore, you're higher than them, you're faster then them and that's why they will feel uncomfortable around you. Never mind what they say, if they can't catch up on your level then that's their problem. It's not being arrogant, it's taking care of your space. It's ok if people are hating you because you're doing the best for your life, after all you don't need a lot of fake friends around. If they like you they like you, nothing's gonna change that fact. If they hate you they hate you, as simple as that. Never hold yourself back or stop moving forward just because they're telling you that you've changed. If they can't go to your level then that's their problem. It's your duty to become better and better each day, you owe it to yourself to become great. Success doesn't need sensitive person, there is no room for being too emotional here, you have to do what is best for you even if it takes not giving time to some people, you have to make sacrifices here, greatness is waiting for you.
ASK YOURSELF THIS..
Are you going to get something by doing that? is your life going to improve? are you going to get some money or opportunity? is your life going to upgrade by doing that? is your skill going to improve? Always guard your thoughts and actions, these little decisions are critical. You can't be wasting a lot of time if you're really chasing success, you have to use your time wisely and allocate it to useful things and activities that will put you on a better position to succeed. Be honest with yourself, if it's not making you feel good then why do it? if it's not giving you something then why do it? Always be mindful of your thoughts and actions, always do the right thing and stay present. Believe that doing the hard work and making sacrifices is the path to greatness. Stop fooling yourself that you're in control if the reality is not. You will only be in control if you will discipline yourself and do the right things. Time will come and you will run out of time that's why you have to invest now in doing what is best for your life.
REMEMBER THAT IT'S NOT ABOUT FEELING GOOD
Making a progress, changing yourself, manufacturing a momentum is not about feeling good. If you always feel good and comfortable then it means you're not getting better. You really have to feel uncomfortable and weird, there must be uncertainty, you must feel the stress and embrace it with all your heart. Be comfortable being uncomfortable, be happy if you're not feeling alright because it means change is taking place. So what if you don't feel good? so what if you're struggling and always chasing? Force change into your life, never pamper your emotions, it's ok if you're dragging yourself into taking actions, don't worry because you will get use to it. If you can enjoy the process then you already changed, if you can work harder than yesterday and be more focused then you already changed. It's simply about not wasting time for nonsense things, you know what really matters right? then do it.
FOCUS ON WHAT IS WORKING A LITTLE BIT
There is something that will work in your life and you have to focus on it even if it's only giving you a little. Focus on trying to making it bigger and stronger. Never think about anything else other than becoming a winner and changing yourself. Focus on what will give you a little momentum, focus on taking baby steps and always follow through, don't stop, don't settle.
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