When you're scared you always think that fear is a special feeling, you think that fear is somethin to be worried about, you think that it's the only first time you've felt that way. But guess what? this is something you didn't notice... you've been scared your whole life, you're always scared of something you can't control, you're worried about the future, you're worried about what people say, you're scared of failing, you're scared of making mistakes, you're scared of not making it, you're scared of getting lost. You already felt fear a lot of times before in different situations, why the hell are you worried about feeling it again? why are you panicking not that you're feeling it again. If you can understand that it's normal feeling it then you will control any type of situation. The key is to stop rushing and focus on breathing, focus on what you're trying to achieve, focus on staying still and never let anything penetrate your mind or affect your decisions.
FAILING IS A NOT A NEW FEELING EITHER
You failed a lot of times before, your crush rejected you, your mom spanked you, your professor failed you, a random stranger bullied you, you're late in the class, you lost in a game then why are you still scared to fail? why are you still scared to give your very best? you've been failing since you were a toddler, failing is not a new feeling so why be afraid of it? if you can simply enjoy trying and trying then you can succeed, as simple as that. Don't be afraid to fail because it will open the doors to victory, so what if you fail? does it make you a bad person? you can still try again so why be afraid of it? keep pushing, keep trying because you never know when the success will come. It may come tomorrow, it may come next week but there is one thing for sure you will never see it if you don't try. A real great man is the one who's not afraid of failing. If you want to become great then you need to take risks, always give yourself a chance to win by simply trying and not being afraid of what may happen next.
DON'T BE SCARED OF CHAOS
It's the world we lived in, it's really chaotic, it's really dangerous and it's really mean. You have to deal with it and enjoy every type of experience. It's the only way to make things easier... enjoy everything, enjoy anything and don't be afraid to fail every now and then. Life will really be full of complexities, you will experience a lot of adversity, it's nothing new, you've been seeing a lot of these since you were young, it should not intimidate you anymore, you should feel braver than ever now. And even if you haven't experienced a lot of problems yet... you have to face it, you have to experience a lot of it so that you will become tough. Face all the resistance, do what is hard and never shy away from any challenges because that will make you better, it will improve your mentality. Chaos is something that you should embrace because that is where growth is about to happen. Embrace all the stress and unexpected events, ignore all the distractions while moving forward to your goal.
SPEED USER
Be fast, use speed, take actions fast, decide fast and you will see that you're not worrying anymore. Many people are still worrying because they don't act fast, they overthink, they're full of hesitations. But if you will decide now that you're going to do it, if you will act now then your mind will be on a better place. Just be fast, if you need to do something just do it, stop thinking if you're right or wrong, stop thinking if you will fail or not, just do it and never judge yourself again. Because at the end of the day it's really about taking actions and nothing else. Who can take massive actions, who will move fast is the one who's going to succeed, as simple as that. So keep pushing forward and unleash the beast in you, never hold yourself back, act even if you are scared and worried. That fear will go away once you already established a momentum. You will feel much better if you will take actions, fear will be dissolved if you will take the first step. So pull the trigger now, never focus on your fears because it's too normal to become scared, it's nothing new anymore, just take actions and do what is best for your life. The key is to never let your mind think, never let it worry, just push forward and see what will happen with hard work and perseverance.
THERE IS NO HARD OR EASY
Never think that something is hard, it's hard because you're not even trying, it's hard because you don't want to start it. Instead of opening your mouth complaining and looking for reasons why it can't be done... why not just do it? why not just start? stop complaining and acting like a diva, just do it and keep following through, never stop until it's done. You have the power to finish anything if you will focus on it and give your best. Just give it an effort, full maximum effort is what you need and nothing else. Stop looking for another way, just do it. It's the push that really matters not if it is hard or easy, the question is are you pushing yourself? are you really giving your all? if not then shut up and just do the work. Difficulty is only in the mind, you created it by judging the situation, if you really think that it is hard then it is but if you think that it's easy then you will be able to finish it faster.
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