Have you ever wonder why your money is always running out? sometimes you think you're in control and you already set a budget only to find out that you need to borrow money from someone else to pay your bills. You're so addicted to spending your money, when you see something that you like... you will buy it without even thinking about it.
You wan to spend more even though your money is already running out because it becomes an addiction. The momentum is there, once you already break your limited budget... you will never make adjustments anymore, you will say to yourself "I already broke the budget so I will continue breaking it" until your money runs out and you don't know where to get it when there is an emergency.
It becomes an addiction, it becomes your habit. You're no longer afraid to break your budget because you have an option of borrowing money from others. It's really addictive to spend and spend and spend because you feel rich by doing it, you feel a little bit of power but that is fake power because it will never last. Once the problem is there, do you think you can feel good again?
YOU ALWAYS PRIORITIZE YOUR FEELINGS
It's weird because every time your money is about to go zero, there is a sale item on the internet, there is an item in the mall that you wanted to buy. You always feel that you need to buy something, it's not a serendipity... it's because you've been doing that before. You already got addicted to that feeling of buying something even though you know that your money is about to go zero. You always prioritize your feelings, that feeling of buying something is so addicted, it gives you a temporary high but the long term effect is so bad, it puts you on a quicksand that you can't even get out.
Stop feeding your emotions, stop feeding your addiction of buying something even if you don't need it, that's the only way yo get out from the rut that you are in.
If there is an urge to buy something... you need to control yourself and think deeply if you really need it or not. Look at your pocket, is there an extra money? you need to be aware that if you buy that item then you need to beg again the next day to your friend to let you borrow some money.
Stop prioritizing your feelings, it really feels good buying something but that feeling will only last for a few minutes, sooner or later you will realize that it's just a trash because you're not even using it. If you will not use something everyday then you really don't need it.
Your emotion is always lying, it's telling you that you need to buy it but the truth is you really don't need it, it's just a garbage, it's new for now but sooner or later you will never use it anymore, you will even ignore it.
YOU ALWAYS THINK THERE IS SOMEONE WHO WILL LEND YOU MONEY
You're so confident that someone will always lend you some money, and it's true... you will find it. Even if your brother is already mad at you because this is the tenth time that you have to borrow money from him... you will still borrow even if you still haven't paid the last money that you borrow from him. Even if your friend is already hiding from you because he knew you're going to borrow some money, you will still try. Your friend is already afraid of your shadows, he already memorized your style and timing when it comes to asking a help from him. Your face is already very thick, you will borrow and borrow even if you know if yourself you will have a hard time returning the money back.
What if there is no one to lend you money anymore? what if all of your friends, siblings or relatives turn their backs on you?
SCARE YOURSELF
Condition your mind that there is no one there to help you, imagine that nobody will help you anymore and you will get hungry if you spend your last money. Imagine that your electricity will get cut, imagine that your house will be forclosed, imagine that you will get hungry because you have no more food to eat. You need to think negative things about spending too much. Scare yourself so that you will avoid buying things that you don't even need, discipline is the most important thing here, once you believe that tragedy is about to come because of spending irresponsibly... you will be able to avoid wasting your money for nothing.
YOU ARE FEELING RICH
You are always feeling rich, you wanted to look good in front of your friends, you don't want to be told that you don't have money, you can't admit that you're just an average person or you're poor, you can't admit that you're having a hard time budgeting your money, you can't be yourself. You wanted to look cool, you wanted everyone to admire you because you have new clothes, gadgets or anything new but the truth is they really know that you are broke, they really know that you're always borrowing money from others.
It's time to become real, face the reality, admit that you don't have enough money and do the right thing. Trying to look cool and rich is the path to being broke, trust me... I've seen this a lot of times, I knew a lot of people trying to look rich and powerful but in the end they become broke and poor.
YOU ONLY NEED A FEW
You only need a few things in your life, you only need a few clothes, few shoes, few bags, few everything. You only need one or two things for each item. The rule is this... if you're not using it everyday then you really don't need it. If you will just buy something for the sake of having it then that is a bad decision, it feels good for now but it will have a bad effect on you in the future.
Be happy by having few, less is more, if you have lesser things then you will be able to appreciate all of it, you will be able to use all of it. Stop trying to impress other people by looking rich, if they don't like you they don't like you no matter how hard you try to impress them. Real people who likes you will still like you even if you have nothing.
MASTER THE DELAYED GRATIFICATION
It's all you need, once you master delaying gratification then you're on the path to being rich. It's very simple, discipline yourself, don't buy something for one straight month and you will already see the effect, you will see that you're having an easy time paying your bills, you are being able to pay your debts little by little, you will feel the progress, you will feel that your life is getting better and better everyday. You will feel free and secured. This is what all rich people does... they master the delayed gratification, they will not buy stupid stuffs that has no value at all, they will invest their money, they are so patient and all they do is keep doubling or tripling their money.
Time is fast, if you mastered delayed gratification, you will not even notice that you already have enough.
IT FEELS BETTER SAVING THEN SPENDING
If you can just shift your thoughts and feel good about saving then you will become rich easily. It's a process, if you can just be patient saving money little by little and fully in love with the process then it will be easier for you to become wealthy, buy in to the process, be patient and be ok saving small money everyday or every week. Once you making saving money as a habit then you will never become broke anymore, you will don't need to borrow money from other people anymore.
IT'S NOT ABOUT HOW MUCH YOU EARN IT'S HOW MUCH YOU CAN KEEP
Even if you're earning millions but you can't keep it... it is still useless, you will still become broke one day because the habit of overspending is still there, if you can't keep at least 30 percent of what you can earn then you will never be able to have a very secured life. It's not about how much you earn, it's about how big the percentage of what you earn that you can keep. If you can keep 50 percent of your monthly salary then you're one of a kind.
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