Let's admit it... it's easier to become nasty and mean, it's easier to hate and it's harder to love but the hardest things to do have bigger rewards. It only means that if you practice kindness then you will have a better life. Being bad and disrespectful creates more stress, it's not fun at all because you feel a lot heavier while hating, your conscience is feeling guilty a little bit.
It sounds corny but you can try kindness for one day, see if it works for you, or even try it for a week and if you feel good about it then keep doing it. You can try it, there is nothing wrong about it, you don't need to look mean and intimidating all the time, kindness can create happiness easily. You can make the people around you and yourself happy by being kind and soft hearted. Kindness is not weakness, actually it's strength because it's effortless you don't even need to fight or exert an effort just to be kind, you just let things flow, you just set yourself free and kill your ego. Kindness is more rewarding because people will give kindness back to you if you're kind to them.
Here are some kindness tips that you can try everyday:
1. Don't kick your neighbor's dog
2. Feed the beggars or give some coins
3. Don't argue with your parents
4. Stop hating in social media
5. Stop thinking about getting a revenge to your enemy
6. Kiss your nagging wife
7. Love your work, be passionate even if you're sick and tired of it
8. Smile often
9. Give way to the traffic
10. Pray and be thankful
11. Give something to charity
12. Help your struggling friend or simply accompany him
13. Go to church
14. Forgive your haters and enemies
15. Let go of something that is making you mad
Kindness is easier than what you think. Just a simple act of kindness is already kindness, when you do something... don't expect something in return, that is kindness already. Kindness is not simply about giving, it's also being kind to yourself. Stop stressing yourself too much, having a peace of mind and not minding what other people are doing is already an act of kindness.
You can be bad, you can be kind, you can be anything but most of the time... kindness is what will make you feel bad. You're not coward if you're kind, actually you are brave because it's hard to kill your ego. And doing something that is hard is an act of bravery. Everyone wants to look savage, everyone wants to look mean and intimidating, everyone wants to look cool but being kind is not what everyone wants to do, it's hard but it's more fulfilling, it will give you an endless peace of mind. Just be kind, try it for a short time and see how you feel by doing it.
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