Being powerful doesn't necessarily mean you're dominant, it doesn't mean you're always in control. Being powerful means you are giving your best and you're doing it your way. There are lot of things that makes you powerless, here are 8 of them:
You're not using your skills, you know something but you're not using it. And that's why you always feel weak, it's because you're not allowing yourself to win. By having this kind of mentality makes you feel so useless because you're not giving yourself a chance to be on the best position to win. You know how to shoot but you're not taking the shots, you know how to write but you're not writing, you know how to hustle but you're so afraid to try, you know how to dance but you're so shy in front of people, you know how to do something but you're not doing it, you know how to work but you're so lazy to start. You're not using your power, you love to stay the same and not even try, you're too comfortable with your shitty status and position. You don't want to grow, you don't want to stretch yourself. You know something but you're not applying it to your life. Just go, just do it and never mind what's going to happen next. Use your power, skills and knowledge. Feel free and never be afraid to try, if you have this kind of mentality then you will be in control, you will be able to do more, you will be able to do it your way.
2. You give away too much of your time.
You give away your time for free, this is a mortal sin if you're trying to grow. You're helping everyone even the people that you don't like, you're entertaining every problems, you're interested with other people's lives, you're going to concerts of your idol, you're watching the lives of celebrities, you easily get tempted with social gatherings or parties, you get distracted with small problems, you're interested with gossips and fights in social medias, you're too hooked with what is trending nowadays and that's why you feel out of control, that's why you can't grow. You should not make yourself available all the time, never expose yourself with things that doesn't even make you improve a little bit. If you want to feel powerful then you should focus on what you do only, focus on your own growth, stop watching them and let them watch you. Time is the most important thing in life, not other people, not stupid entertainment... your time is the most valuable thing.
3. You're so afraid to lose.
Being afraid to lose means being afraid to try and not trying means you already lost. If you will just try then you have a chance, as simple as it sounds. The logic was very clear, you have to try with all your might an never care about failing. You can try again next time, you can try as much as you want, nothing can stop you. Develop a character of not giving up and you will become invincible. Losing is part of the game, if you haven't lose yet then you haven't really win yet. You have to lose a lot of times before you win, it's ok to be waiting, your turn will come, just keep going and keep trying. Don't be afraid to try a million times just to win one time. You have to go all in, you have to keep pushing as much as you can, don't be afraid to lose because he who dares to fail will win for sure. Those who are playing it safe will never win in life, it is what it is, it's going to get harder but the victory will become sweeter.
4. You care about what people say
You value what people say, you're so concerned about their mouths and that's why you're too conservative of your actions. What they say is none of your business, the only business you've got is your life, taking care of your journey and sticking with your values. It's none of your business to control their filthy mouths, you have to keep going and keep attacking your dreams. What people say will never improve you, even the positive ones, even if they say that you're good and beautiful... did it change your skills or looks? no right? you're still the same person as yesterday. Caring about what people say will make you doubt yourself, it will make you hesitant and slow, it will make you scared and too worried. If you will never mind what they're thinking then you're a super free person.
5. You're so afraid to be alone
If you're not afraid to be alone, if you're not afraid to do it your way and get laughed at then you will become powerful. It's because you will become more creative, decisive and fast. You will have more confidence in yourself. Some people will even get impressed with the courage that you're displaying. Be alone if you need to, sometimes you have to endure it just to have more time for yourself and make decisions by your intuition. Most people will join together because they were so scared to lose but in the end they will find themselves not liking what's going on. Don't go with the trend, create your own path and just be yourself. Unfollow the crowd, just take actions as much as you can and believe in yourself. So what if nobody likes you? so what if the whole world is against you? just keep going no matter what and never complain of what you've been getting.
6. You always compare yourself to others
When someone is succeeding, when someone is having a blast... you feel sorry for yourself. You're comparing your journey with winners that makes you feel like a loser even more.
7. You're always thinking about the past and the future
8. Being a perfectionist
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