"You can live without something that you want"
Don't ever forget this quote, it's the greatest quote of all time to make you forget your misery and have some little love for yourself. You can live without your toxic and crazy lover, you can live without money, you can live without a friend, you can live with a sick body, you can live without happiness. Don't ever underestimate the power of nothing because it's the most powerful position in the world. If you have nothing then you have nothing to lose you have everything to gain, there will be no pressure, there will be no chip on your shoulder. Everything will feel like a play, everything will become easier. You can live with absolutely zero in your life, if you can still this in your mind then you will become very powerful.
You don't need respect from everyone, you don't need appreciation or attention. You don't need to know if they like you or not, you can live without their fake love, you can live without them. If you can think this way then you will become very powerful. Nothing can harm you, nothing can manipulate or control your mind. Because at the end of the day it's your attachment to everything that makes you feel bad. If you can completely detach from everything every time you need to then you will have a very good life. Detach from everything that makes you feel bad, stop knowing about it, stop thinking about it, it's ok if you don't know something from it, it's ok to know that it's there but not giving it any kind of meaning. Make it as meaningless, make it as useless, ignore it and never care if it's trying to make you react again. Don't react, don't waste time and energy for it.
Don't ever feel bad if you don't have this or have that. Don't feel sorry for yourself if you can't have what you want, don't get depressed, don't feel frustrated... be happy with what you have even if what you have looks nothing to everyone, even if your life is all you have, at least you still have something. And the truth is.. you feel like you have nothing because you're not looking at your life so deeply, you need to make an inventory of what you really have and count your blessings. You will find out that there are still things to be thankful of. Make your happiness very simple, make it general and you will never feel so empty again.
PRACTICE GRATTITUDE EVERYDAY
Just say thank you and you will feel good. The happiest people were so appreciative. And it's not a hard thing to do. You only need to practice it everyday. Say thank you, it can be a silent thank you or a loud thank you, you can do it in your mind. Which way you feel comfortable, do it. Say thank you everyday, look for things or people or event were you can be thankful of. It's easy to hate, it's harder to love but loving and being appreciate will give you a much better life. Just don't hate, if you don't like something just ignore it and never let it make you feel bad. Don't talk about it, don't open a discussion about it, don't gossip about it.. just treat it like nothing, treat it cold and never use a single ounce of energy for it. Being appreciative will give you a better life, abundance and security will be felt. It's not that you're coward or delusional, it's better to be in that state of mid rather than being negative and insecure.
NEVER TRY TO CHASE SOMETHING
Don't look for approval, stop chasing girls, stop chasing money... attract them. Just be yourself, give your very best and attract them, it will come into your life if you're not being needy and impatient. It will come to you, you just need to trust and feel confident with the process. Just give your best and push yourself to the limits, it's ok to want something but never cry for it, never beg for it. Always relax because it will never be yours if you're being impatient about it. Never complain, never feel entitled, just let it come naturally. Because the more you chase it the more it goes away from you. Never think that what you want is the only thing that can make you happy. You have to feel complete and satisfied all the time, you have to have a mindset of having not to need something in order to feel complete and happy. Just think that what you don't have you don't need and what you don't need you don't have. Feel what happy with what you have right now because that's the real power.
IGNORE IT ONE BY ONE
Going to the next level or trying to improve a little bit doesn't mean you need to get something. It's ignoring all the distraction one by one and focusing on the process. Ignore what you don't have, ignore all the people and events that you don't like, ignore the temptation, ignore the useless activities and just focus on trying to build yourself up. Improve day by day, take it one step at a time and don't be afraid if the process is slow. Don't be afraid if you're not progressing, just trust the process and lay the bricks one by one. Ignore what is making you unproductive, ignore the addiction, ignore it one by one and you will find yourself turning into a different animal, you will slowly turn into something special if you will ignore what is bothering you. Focus on what matters the most and never waste your energy for something that is unrewarding.
IT'S ALL ABOUT THE MENTALITY
It's not about your reality, it's about your mentality. If you keep on spending time for things and people that are not helping you then your life will become like that. No matter how ugly your reality is... you can change it if you can develop a proper mentality. It's simply about knowing what you want and what you can do to get it and nothing else. It's simply about not giving up during the hard times and ignoring the distractions that are trying to slow you down, develop a mentality that is very strong and can weather any storm. Develop a mentality that focuses on the bigger picture and not on the petty things that bothers you. Always look at the bigger picture, never give any attention or focus to something that will not even give you something positive in return. Your mentality is everything, a strong and well functioning mind equals an extraordinary life. Your mind is your investment, put thoughts and mental pictures on it that will give you an easier life. Sometimes your life gets harder because of the way you think. Think better and you will become better.
KNOW WHO YOU ARE
Knowing what you can do and knowing that you can thrive in the end is a very powerful thing. Sometimes people get easily distracted, they always fail and come up short because they don't know what they can do. They simply give up when it is hard, they simply allow themselves to get distracted because they don't believe in themselves. If you really know who you are then small things and small problems can never shake you. No person can bother you, nothing can penetrate your mind to poison it. You will become a bulletproof of the distractions, you will succeed, you will become a winner simply because of knowing who you are and believing with the process.
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