You are not aware that your life is not completely yours, it is being owned by other people and other things that are not even healthy for you. You are letting them control your mind, decisions and actions. If you can just watch yourself and feel happy with what you're doing, if you can stay positive all the time then you will live a much better life.
You love watching other people's lives, you love following the crowd, you are a trendist, you want to be like them, you want to follow what most people are doing. And this kind of mentality is making you weak, you can't make your own decisions, you can't be original, you're having a hard time being yourself because you're too concerned about what people are going to say. You're saying yes all the time, you're giving other people too much power over you and that's why you're a follower and a slave of your own life and other people's lives, you bow to them, you hate being left behind, you're too scared to become different but you wanted to impress them.
STICK WITH THE BASICS
If you want to become happy then never compare your life with others. Stick with the basics, focus on what you want to do, focus on what you can control and never follow them just because you think it's the right thing. You have your own decision, you can think your own way. Focus on your own life, stop complicating anything. Stop entertaining a lot of BS that doesn't resonate with your values. Stop getting interested with what other people are doing, stick with the basics and never do a lot of stupidity that will only make your life worse, you have to become disciplined and mentally powerful. You have to protect your mind against harmful information that will make you scared, distracted and slow. Stick with the basics that makes you better and gives you small results. There's n need to complicate your life, you just need to stay serious with your journey and never let anything manipulate your mind. If you're about winning then be about winning, never develop a habit of a loser.
YOUR HATE OWNS YOU
What you hate owns you, you're always thinking about it, whining about it, complaining about it, you're giving too much time and energy to it. You hate your neighbors, you hate some arrogant people, you hate someone that doesn't resonates with your values, you hate what you don't like. You want to control everything, it's in your mind, you feel powerless by giving too much attention to them. Just ignore what you hate and it will go away. Never give any attention or time to people or things that doesn't serve you at all. Don't think about it, don't talk about it, don't give it any second. Own your mind, never let something control your emotions, you should be the one controlling your feelings. What you think will become your reality. Where the focus go the energy go, you have to stop entertaining thought about subjects that you hate. Learn to shift your focus every time you find yourself thinking again about the subjects that you hate. There are millions of things to be appreciative of.
FOCUS ON WINNING
Stop focusing on people, focus on winning and doing it your way. Stop focusing on things that doesn't serve you or help you to become a better person. Focus on taking it one step at a time and be ok with getting zero results. It's ok, just be patient and your time will come. Focus on winning, focus on trying to get better and learn how to enjoy the process. Make a game plan and follow it, if there is no game plan then just do whatever it takes to succeed. The small things, small steps are vital to what you are trying to accomplish, be patient and never stop, keep going no matter what. Force yourself to take actions every time you feel lazy, you have to start now and focus on winning.
THE FUNNY THING IS
You are more interested with what's going on with the life of celebrities rather than getting interested with your own life. You disrespect your life every time you do that. You have to stop giving your time for free. It's boring in the beginning but you can only grow fast if you will focus on your life 24/7. It's time to become selfish with your time, stop using it if it's not for your family. Stop using it stalking other people's lives, knowing what they are on, trying to learn their culture etc. You have to give your time for yourself only and use it for learning or improving. Because at the end of the day these people that you are admiring will never help, they don't even know you, they will not love you back so what is the point of loving them? you're only wasting your time and energy if you're giving them too much attention. Use your time for making your life better not for knowing everything about other people. The best way to live is through focusing on your goals and not minding what other people are doing.
NEVER GIVE IMPORTANCE TO WHAT THEY SAY
Again, you are not living your life the right way if you give too much importance to what they say. What people say is out of your control, you can become the nicest person in the world but there will still be some people who will try to sabotage you or hate you. What people say is nothing, it will only make you weak if you focus on it. You have to give importance only to what you do or think. Make sure you stay positive and believe in yourself. Make sure you're on the right track by using all of your time for your own agenda. Never give away your time for free, if they want your time then they should pay you. Never give any minute or seconds to people who were toxic to your life.
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