You have to admit to yourself that what you're doing is only making your life sucks even more, you have to see yourself failing, you have to swallow your pride and change directions. Because at the end of the day your habits dictates what will you become in the future. If you have the right habits and right thinking patterns then you will win win life, you will live a spectacular and very good life. So make an inventory, what are the habits and thinking patterns that makes you stuck, what are the actions or thoughts that drags you down? you have to get rid of everything that is fun but is making you weak and unproductive. A lot of things are fun, pleasures are fun, instant gratification is fun nut it will lead your life to chaos and misery. Your habits and thoughts are the ones creating your life. Be careful with your thoughts and words because it becomes actions, be careful where you are focusing on because it will manifest in the future. That's why if you really wanted to change then be aware where you are focusing your energy one, what are you thinking everyday? what is the dominant thought in your head? your thoughts become reality, you have to be aware of this saying because it is 100 percent true. You will become sick if you keep thinking about sickness, you will become broke if you're scared of recession and trying to avoid it everyday, you will become a loser if you keep thinking about the past that makes you lose, you will become a winner if all you do is work on yourself and believe that anything you do is working. It's the thoughts and actions that shapes your reality and not the reality itself. You can still thrive in a very ugly place full of scumbags and losers if you're different than them and thinks better than them.
OPTIMIZE YOUR HABITS
Look at yourself and honestly tell yourself if who you are right now is the person that you really want to be. Are you going to idolize yourself with your habits and attitude right now? do you really think you can succeed with the way you behave and think? if not then optimize your habits, change everything in your life. Change the way you think, decide, move and judge everything. Change the way you perceive things, change the way you life your life, change everything inside of your head that is only making you feel like a loser. Optimize your habits, optimize your brain and see what you can achieve for the next few months. Yes, it is really going to get hard but that's the only choice you have, you have to face the pain, face the stress and stop really focus on changing yourself. Eliminate everything that is of no use, erase the habits and memories that's not putting you on a better place. It's too simple, just know what you want and ask yourself... is what you're doing now helping you to get closer to what you want? if not then stop it and choose a better and useful action.
PERSEVERE UNTIL YOU FINALLY CONTROL YOUR MIND
Teach your mind how to think, discipline your mind to only see the things that you wanted to see. Ignore everything that is making you feel bad and weak, ignore everything that is not helping you to prosper. You need perseverance and tremendous willpower to change your mind but it is really possible. Just be mindful all the time and watch your thoughts and words. Change the way you open your mouth, change your words, change your judgement towards people, things and different situations. Become a little bit more positive, no matter how bad a situation or a person is... never judge it according to its appearance. Learn how to see the positive or bright side of everything, learn how to become more appreciative and your life will improve a little bit. Again, it's your focus that shapes your life, what you feed your mind is going to manifest itself. So stop saying negative things against people, stop cursing your situation and start to become more appreciative. Never get bothered with petty things, never let a small and useless problem make you feel bad. It takes a lot of effort, you need to get serious in changing your mind but the result is priceless and very fulfilling.
DISCIPLINE IS VERY POWERFUL
You may not like it in the beginning, you may get bored with it but it's the real deal. Discipline is very powerful, it creates results, it creates progress, it creates changes. Discipline is freedom, it creates confidence and control. You are nothing without discipline even if you're the smartest person in the room. All you need to do is avoid the things, pleasures and entertainment that will only put you in the bad position in the future and that's it. It means stop wasting your time for useless habits and activities or even thoughts that will never give you any advantage. Discipline is preparation, it's strengthening your mind and body, it's preparing yourself for difficult challenges, it's putting you on a better position to succeed. Discipline yourself and you will become a different beast. Discipline your mind and replace all the thoughts that are meaningless and useless. If you are depriving yourself of instant gratification and easy but useless habits then you are putting yourself on the best place to become great. Discipline is the start of everything that is great. Watch yourself all the time, if you really wanted to change then guard all of your thoughts and actions and once you find yourself not doing the right thing or not thinking the right way... change your energy and get back on track. Change your focus and put it back on the right place.
FACE THE PAIN
Face the boredom, face the pain, change is stressful but it's only for the first few weeks. Once you were able to establish a new set of habits then everything else will become automatic, it will become very easy. All it takes is patience and the willingness to feel bad, embrace the bad emotions, it is really painful to change yourself but that's the price of asking for a new life. You want a new life right? you want something better right? then face the pain and stop complaining that it is hard. Believe in the power of making sacrifices, believe in the power of choosing the right habits. You will never see the results right away but you will in the near future. Just be patient and never give up because it's all worth it.
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