IT'S NOT SACRIFICE IT'S BEING IT |
The reason why you are having a hard time in your life is because you think you're sacrificing. You want to become great but most people told you that you're going to sacrifice, they say that you have to work really hard and give everything you've got everyday. That's really hard. But if you will thing that you should be it and you should become one with your dream then it's not going to be hard anymore. For example, if you want to become a great basketball player... you should not think about lifting weights, practicing for 5 hours a day, practicing drills, watching videos and footages about different games, meditating and visualizing. Those are lot of tasks and you will get overwhelmed if you will try all of it. But if you will become it, if you will let it run your life and let it be your life then it will be easier. Make it your lifestyle, make it your culture, it will not be sacrifice anymore... you're already it, you're already greatness.
The word sacrifice is heavy, in your mind you have to do what you don't want to do. But if you will think that it's your responsibility and it's already part of who you are then you will feel good about it. Don't think about sacrifices, don't think about punishing yourself... think about embodying it, think about living it and breathing it. Decide now what you really want to achieve in life and once you finally decide and you're sure about it... be it.
It's all about doing what can make your life better, it's all about putting yourself on the best position to succeed. Ask yourself... is what you're doing taking you further, is it making you better or was it just making you slow and weak?
Always give your very best, push hard everyday and never think that you're sacrificing, think that it's already your life and you can't change it anymore. The more you do it, the more you will like it, you will learn how to love it, it will become who you are. So stop feeling that what you're doing is hard, remember that you're doing it because you want something from it. You think it will change your life, why will you hate something that will change your life?
JUST BE IT, BE ABOUT IT, DO EVERYTHING TO BECOME IT
If you want to become a star then do what a star does, steal the limelight, be the man, feel the pressure, be great, do a lot of risky things. If you want to become a millionaire then work like hell, never complain, think about money everyday and do everything to earn a lot... as simple as that, it's all about being it. Focus is the only thing you need, forget about your emotions, forget about what is happening around you, forget what makes you feel bad... focus on what you want and do everything to have it. Be a single minded person, never let your thoughts go anywhere, you must secure it, be strict with your brain... never let it entertain useless thoughts that will only make the process longer.
ENJOY IT EVEN IF YOU HATE IT
Make yourself believe that you are enjoying it, it 's the best way to control your emotions... think that it's the only hobby that you are allowed to do. Keep doing it, keep enjoying it... your emotions will change, not all the time you are bored doing it, if you can only control your mind and appreciate what you're doing then life will become so much easier, you will not even know what is hard and easy anymore. You will enjoy every moment that you're taking actions.
You only hate it in the beginning but once you see that you're becoming good at it... you will learn to love it more, you will make it grow, you will strive to become the greatest. That's what great people does... they hate it in the beginning but they will still focus until they fall in love with it and they couldn't stop anymore.
You can learn anything, you can even learn to love what you hate. Because the truth is... everybody hates hard work but you have to love it if you want to succeed.
DON'T LOOK AT THE CLOCK
What makes life hard is you're always looking at the clock, you're always looking at the result. You don't need it, life is life, you only need to breathe, everything else is just a bonus. If it will happen then it will happen, what matters is you are enjoying your life and you're not rushing anything. The more you wait for something the more it will not come. Just enjoy the journey and give your very best, stop thinking too much, stop worrying because it will never help you at all. Be one with time, be one with the moment. Looking at the clock means you can't endure the pain anymore, it means you want to escape the process, and the moment you do that... you will feel more tired, you will feel that it is never ending. Stop looking at the clock and make the moment epic.
FOCUS ON SOMETHING THAT YOU CAN DO AT THE MOMENT
The process will become much easier if you will just focus on what you can do. Never focus on the results, never focus on the mistakes and discomfort. Just focus on what you can do regardless of what is happening. Stay focus, never stop until you get the job done. And once you're done... start something again that is related to what you really want, never get sick and tired of it, never lose the passion. It should keep going forever. Again, never think that it's just a waste time because it's not. For sure there is something that you can do that is related to your dream... do it right away and enjoy it, always have fun.
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