17 TIPS TO AVOID GETTING BULLIED THAT WILL SURELY WORK

17 TIPS TO AVOID GETTING BULLIED THAT WILL SURELY WORK

There are lot of bullies nowadays, no matter how hard the government campaigns for the avoidance of it... the number of bullies keeps growing, it seems like they were immortals and they multiply easily. It seems like their species can grow anywhere and nothing can stop them. Even if they knew that bullying is bad they will still do it. They will make fun of you, they write something on your back, they will embarrass you and make you look like a clown, they will overpower you and scare you, if you don't do something about it you will become their slave forever, you will even wipe their assess when they shit, how ugly was that?

I was a bully before and I was also bullied before so I know what it takes to be a bully and how to defeat a bully. Bullying is fun but when I grow older I started to realize that bullying was disgusting, it is a form of weakness because bullies will only bully weak people, they will never pick someone braver than them. Bullies were scared, insecure and needs a lot of attention that's why they do things that they think is cool. I will never make the intro long, I know you've been bullied that's why you're reading this, here are the tops to avoid getting bullied that will surely work.

1. Be quiet. Just be quiet, a bully attacks a loud and weak looking person. He wants to be the only one that is loud, keep quiet and make your identity mysterious so you will not be the target. Being quiet is scary, they don't know what is inside of you, they don't know what you are capable of doing.

2. Stop pleasing them. You are making the bully even stronger by spoiling him, stop giving him what he needs. Some kids will give their lunch to the bully to avoid getting hurt, that will only make the situation worse. The moment you please him is the moment you already lose your power over him. Once he saw that you're kind... he will keep on sucking your energy, he will be an opportunistic guy that pretends to be kind but has a hidden agenda. Stop making that bully feel special, treat him like nothing, don't ever give him any favor, don't even help him.

3. Retaliate the first time you get bullied. Kill the problem while it's not yet big. Retaliate right away when you experience getting bullied. Show the bully that you don't like what is going one, make him feel that you're ready for a war.

4. Show some violence. It's not that you're going to kill, you need to show them some aggression, that serves as a warning that if they keep doing what they're doing then they're in big trouble. It's better if you bully someone too so that he will be afraid of you. But make sure you don't become a bully, remember that it's just a showmanship, you are not a bully so stop bullying too.

5. Fight back. Sometimes there is no other choice but to fight back. If you can't stand the bullying anymore then the madness should stop now, fight back, it's either he beat you or you beat him.

6. Be ready to get hurt. Don't be afraid to get hurt. If the bully smells your fear... you will be his favorite target. Be ready to get hurt if you will fight back to a bully. Don't worry because it will only hurt for once, once he learned that you are not afraid of getting hit and you can fight back... he will not hurt you again.

7. Just laugh at it. Some bullies will stop once he learned that what he is doing doesn't affect you. Just laugh at his jokes, make a fake laugh. Show him that you're not affected. If he sees that you're not affected with his bullying tactics then he will stop, he will never do it again. But once he feel that you're hurt... he will hurt you even more, he will repeat the bullying everyday.

8. Just go home. Bullying happens during dismissal. The problem with you is you don't want to go home fast. Just go home fast and do some other things if you don't want to fight the bully. Never show him your shadow, sometimes that best defense is running.

9. Never go to the places where they hang out. Don't hang out with them. The reason why some kids were getting bullied is because they were so near with the bully. They think that it's so cool being friends with a bully. If someone is not making you feel good then stop talking to him nor being close to him, just ignore him forever. Play the mind games, let him know that you're not angry at him but treat him cold.

10. Learn some martial arts. Learn some self defense so that you will be ready every time they bully you again. You will feel more confident because you know you have a chance to win a fight now. If you don't have the means to enroll for a taekwondo lesson or karate then just shadow box everyday, if you practice punching a million times then you will become more confident to fight back. Once the battle begins, you know you're not an underdog because you are prepared and you already knew how to punch and kick.

11. Learn to manipulate. You have to learn how to play the game. Learn to manipulate the bully, show him kindness but back stab him. Give him some favor but also ask favor from him. A bully will be kind to you for the first few minutes if you give him some favor but make sure you will attack once you have that temporary power. For example, show the crowd that you are giving him something but make a joke that he is broke and he cannot do such things on his own, make him feel that he is a little bit weak every time you have that power. Manipulate the bully, make him think, have different moods when you're with him so he will guess if it is the right time to bully you or not.

12. Disagree with the bully. He should know that you are willing to stand for what you believe in, he should know that you are not the type of person who agrees with the crowd. Once he is commanding you something... don't follow him. For example he is asking you to do his assignment, agree at first just for the sake of avoiding the conflict but never do it, make excuses for not doing it. Let him feel that you can't be trusted. Don't be afraid to get hit by a bully, always remember that once he hits you... hit back, don't be afraid of the pain... that is the key to success.

13. Don't act like a clown. Someone is bullying you because you're acting like a clown, you're dressing like a clown, you're looking stupid and weak all the time. It's time to wear your game face every second, be serious, stop being a person who can easily be used, stop being that type of passive guy, learn how to be an alpha male. Change your self image from weak to strong. You have to intimidate them a little bit with your looks, the way you talk and the way you react at something. Everything about you should look like a gangster.

14. Look for his weakness. Always look for the weakness of a bully. If he is mocking you then mock his skin, mock his ugly teeth, mock his gay brother. You need to find something that makes him emotional. Another good example is look at his past, study his life, look for something that embarrasses him in the past and always brought it up once he is bullying you. A person can never bully you if you know his dark secrets. Look for the dirt of his family and bring it to the conversation, that bully will become emotional and might hurt you but he will look like a loser every time you say the words that he doesn't want to hear.

15. Be bold and make a stand. When you say no... mean it. Don't change your mind, don't accept his excuses, a bully is kind to you when he needs you. Whenever he is asking for something... say no even if he gets mad. Be bold with your decisions, when you say you will do his or that... do it even if he is trying to disagree with you or try to embarrass you, make a stand for what you believe in and never let him win the argument.

16. Be ready to leave a common friend. Sometimes you and a bully has a common friend that's why you keep on associating yourself with him. You have to be ready to leave a common friend so you no longer have any connection with a bully. Let your common friend choose which side to go with, if he chooses you then be happy but if not so be it, at least you let them know that you are willing to be alone just to avoid getting bullied.

17. Keep reminding him that he is a bully. Some bullies were afraid of getting called a bully because they want to look good and kind to other people. If you can keep telling a bully "don't be a bully" then he might stop especially if some people were hearing it.

Some of these tips will work and some won't. Bullies have different attitudes, they have different levels of fear. Just experiment with these tips and see what will work for you. But the best tip I can give is... face the pain, don't be afraid of getting hurt and don't be afraid of what might happen. You will look invincible if you're ready for pain, embarrassment and humiliation. The bully is afraid of an emotionless person.

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