YOU HAVE TO BE RUDE SOMETIMES

Being nice means inviting parasites in your life, it's ok to be nice, it's nice to be nice but not all the time. If there is a person being rude at you, ignore him, that's being rude too, not responding is an insult. You need to do it so that person will know that you don't like what is happening, you don't agree with what is going on. If you're too nice then people will attack you constantly, they will abuse you and use you, they will become confident in getting something from you. Not all the time you should be nice because this is a mean and nasty world, if you're too soft then rude people will eat you, they will not be afraid of you, they will just do whatever they want to you and that cycle will repeat over and over again. You should stop it, stop those people and show them some rudeness, show them your dark side, if you need to look really mean and obnoxious then do it, if that will protect you then don't hesitate to do it. Forget about your identity, forget about your image, so what if a lot of people hates you? so what if you you will not be voted as Mr. Sportsmanship award? those trophies and recognition means nothing if you feel bad because you can't protect yourself.

Forget about your self image throw away the idea of being a nice guy, it will only make you feel bad. Sometimes you need to be direct, you need to fight for your right, you need to be competitive and mean, if that's what will give you security and advantage then do it. Forget about their emotions, forget about how they feel towards you, forget about their reactions. So what if they feel bad? so what if they  re hurt? for as long as your intention is right and your goal is right...  you're on the right path. Just be yourself and forget about other people's sensitive feelings, they were not part of your journey, you are yourself are the only people that is part of your journey. Stop caring, stop being concerned too much, if you want to have an edge then you should stop caring about what people are thinking and doing. Mind your own business, always look at your goal and what you wanted to achieve, focus on your own life. What is your goal for the day? what is your goal for the moment? focus on those things and your life will have a clearer direction.

The reality is this world is full of mean and nasty people and if you're not ready to defend yourself then you will be abused and used, be ready for those rudeness, be ready for those opportunistic people. Always be on a defensive mode and be willing to go further once the tension arises. Say what you wanted to say, do what you needed to do, if you need to hurt people and be frank then do it. Always remember that this world is full of wild animals that are ready to take what is yours, they are always waiting for your mistakes and weakness so they can materialize their bad intentions.