Oct 13, 2018

THE REAL FREEDOM IS NOT BEING AFRAID OF GETTING OR LOOKING UGLY

Some people can't have freedom in life because they were so afraid of being judged, they were so conscious about their looks, their position or status, they were so afraid of what people are trying to say. Don't be afraid to look ugly or get ugly.... that's the real freedom, that's the ticket to being loose and carefree. Sometimes the situation will get ugly, your status will get ugly but so what? it's normal, shit happens everyday and you have to deal with it, life is full of randomness and if you're not ready to face uncertainties then you will struggle even more. Face the pain, face the ugly situations every now and then, face the harsh judgement from other people, don't be afraid to get humiliated or embarrassed, life is not all about experiencing the good things, you will feel better if you can face everything with open arms and confidence.

If you want to feel free... embrace ugliness, embrace all the critics, embrace all the stress, embrace all the rude comments that you will get from people, embrace all the hardships of life. Just enjoy the ugliness of life, enjoy the bitterness and cruelty from other people, just laugh at it and never retaliate. Life is all about losing, you lose friends, you lose relatives, you lose hair and teeth as you grow older, life will get ugly every now and then but if your perception about life is positive and you are willing to embrace the chaos that will happen then life will become easier for you. It is what it is, life is hard, it's not pretty but there are zillion things in your life to be happy about, all you have to do is become appreciative with your life and everything will become easier.

Beautiful or ugly doesn't matter. Some people have the nicest looks or things in this world but they are still complaining, they are still whining and making a lot of dramas in their lives, they don't know how to become happy anymore. If you will just be ok with what's going on and not complain about the small things that creates discomfort then your life will become easier, your life will become a breeze. Being ok with being ugly is freedom. If you don't care about your status or looks then you will never become insecure anymore, you will never belittle yourself anymore, you will never feel inferior.

Don't be afraid to get ugly things, it is what it is, appreciate what you get in life no matter how ugly it is. Appreciate everything in life, some parts of your life were really hard but not everything is hard, some parts will be very easy and lovely too. All you have to do is stay positive all the time and stop being a dramatic diva. Ugly or not... face it, love it, grab it and never stop living life. The real freedom is not being afraid of ugly things or circumstances be thrown at you. It's like nothing, it feels like nothing, it's just another ordinary day, it's just another day in your life that is not a big deal, don't worry too much, don't feel bad when everything is turning into sour.

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